Anything that consoles is fake.
IRIS MURDOCHI took a deep breath, however, and followed my rule of never speaking frankly to women in moments of emotion. No good ever comes of this.
More Iris Murdoch Quotes
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Every persisting marriage is based on fear’, said Peregrine. ‘Fear is fundamental, you dig down in human nature and what’s at the bottom? Mean spiteful cruel self-regarding fear, whether it makes you to put the foot in it or whether it makes you to cower.
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Love is the extremely difficult realization that something other than oneself is real.
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We are all the judges and the judged, victims of the casual malice and fantasy of others, and ready sources of fantasy and malice in our turn. And if we are sometimes accused of sins of which we are innocent, are there not also other sins of which we are guilty and of which the world knows nothing?
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We can only learn to love by loving.
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Our actions are like ships which we may watch set out to sea, and not know when or with what cargo they will return to port.
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I’ve been so unhappy for years, so unhappy, I don’t understand how a human being can be so unhappy all the time and still be alive.
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The absolute yearning of one human body for another particular body and its indifference to substitutes is one of life’s major mysteries.
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What I needed with all my starved and silent soul was just that particular way of shouting back at the world.
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Let us not waste love, it is rare enough.
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The most essential and fundamental aspect of culture is the study of literature, since this is an education in how to picture and understand human situations.
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I don’t think I can marry, I’m not fit for it, I’m not real enough. That’s the trouble. I’m a puppet that’s realised what’s wrong with itself and it’s horrible. I’m propped up somewhere all alone, watching the real people go past. I’m propped up crying in a corner.
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We defend ourselves with descriptions and tame the world by generalizing.
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Every artist is an unhappy lover. And unhappy lovers want to tell their story.
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I just enjoy translating, it’s like opening one’s mouth and hearing someone else’s voice emerge.
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Perhaps when distant people on other planets pick up some wavelength of ours all they hear is a continuous scream.
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