There comes a point where we need to stop just pulling people out of the river. We need to go upstream to find out why they’re falling in.
TUTU DESMONDThere comes a point where we need to stop just pulling people out of the river. We need to go upstream to find out why they’re falling in.
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Forgiving is not forgetting; its actually remembering–remembering and not using your right to hit back. Its a second chance for a new beginning. And the remembering part is particularly important. Especially if you dont want to repeat what happened.
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We are made for loving. If we don’t love, we will be like plants without water.
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Life of wholeness does not depend on what we experience. Wholeness depends on how we experience our lives
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If you are neutral in situations of injustice, you have chosen the side of the oppressor. If an elephant has its foot on the tail of a mouse, and you say that you are neutral, the mouse will not appreciate your neutrality.
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Forgiveness is truly the grace by which we enable another person to get up, and get up with dignity, to begin anew.
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Differences are not intended to separate, to alienate. We are different precisely in order to realize our need of one another.
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In the end generosity is the best way of becoming more, more, and more joyful.
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Dear Child of God, I am sorry to say that suffering is not optional.
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Forgiveness is simply about understanding that every one of us is both inherently good and inherently flawed.
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You show your humanity by how you see yourself not as apart from others but from your connection to others.
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Like when you sit in front of a fire in winter — you are just there in front of the fire. You don’t have to be smart or anything. The fire warms you.
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There is nothing more difficult than waking someone who is only pretending to be asleep.
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We are fragile creatures, and it is from this weakness, not despite it, that we discover the possibility of true joy.
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Discovering more joy does not, save us from the inevitability of hardship and heartbreak.
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We have hardship without becoming hard. We have heartbreaks without being broken.
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