The one thing we can be certain of is that if we let ourselves fully into the relationship for good or evil, we will not come out unaffected.
ROLLO MAYThis is what our society needs – not new ideas and inventions; important as these are, and not geniuses and supermen, but persons who can be, that is, persons who have a center of strength within themselves.
More Rollo May Quotes
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Forge in the smithy of your soul.
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Therapy isn’t curing somebody of something; it is a means of helping a person explore himself, his life, his consciousness. My purpose as a therapist is to find out what it means to be human.
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Intimacy requires courage because risk is inescapable. We cannot know at the outset how the relationship will affect us. Like a chemical mixture, if one of us is changed, both of us will be. Will we grow in self-actualization, or will it destroy us?
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The acorn becomes an oak by means of automatic growth; no commitment is necessary. The kitten similarly becomes a cat on the basis of instinct. Nature and being are identical in creatures like them. But a man or woman becomes fully human only by his or her choices and his or her commitment to them.
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When you are completely absorbed or caught up in something, you become oblivious to things around you, or to the passage of time. It is this absorption in what you are doing that frees your unconscious and releases your creative imagination.
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One of the easiest ways to be irresponsible about power is to forget you have it.
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Good art wounds as well as delights. It must, because our defenses against the truth are wound so tightly around us. But as art chips away at our defenses, it also opens us to healing potentialities that transcend intellectual games and ego-preserving strategies.
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Creativity is the encounter of the intensively conscious human being with his world.
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The creative act arises out of the struggle of human beings with and against that which limits them.
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Many people suffer from the fear of finding oneself alone, and so they don’t find themselves at all.
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Beauty is the experience that gives us a sense of joy and a sense of peace simultaneously.
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When I fall in love, I feel more valuable and I treat myself with more care. We have all observed the hesitant adolescent, uncertain of himself, who, when he or she falls in love, suddenly walks with a certain inner assuredness and confidence/
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So courage makes possible all the psychological virtues. Without courage other values wither away into mere facsimiles of virtue.
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Freedom does not come automatically; it is achieved. And it is not gained in a single bound; it must be achieved each day.
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Ecstasy is the accurate term for the intensity of consciousness that occurs in the creative act.
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