To love means to be actively concerned for the life and the growth of another.
IRVIN D. YALOMOne doesn’t do existential therapy as a freestanding separate theory; rather it informs your approach to such issues as death, which many therapists tend to shy away from.
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It is wrong to bear children out of need, wrong to use a child to alleviate loneliness, wrong to provide purpose in life by reproducing another copy of oneself. It is wrong also to seek immortality by spewing one’s germ into the future as though sperm contains your consciousness!
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If one is to learn to live with the dead, one must first learn to live with the living!
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Some piece of ourselves, not necessarily our consciousness, but some piece of ourselves gets passed on and on and on.
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Does a being who requires meaning find meaning in a universe that has no meaning?
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Though the physicality of death destroys us, the idea of death may save us.
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…the more unlived your life, the greater your death anxiety.
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Despair is the price one pays for self-awareness. Look deeply into life, and you’ll always find despair.
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Never take away anything if you have nothing better to offer
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Psychiatry is a strange field because, unlike any other field of medicine, you never really finish.
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Life is a spark between two identical voids, the darkness before birth and the one after death.
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Since then mountains and torrential rivers and whatever separates and alienates have been cast between us, and even if we wanted to get together, we couldn’t. But when you now think of that little footbridge, words fail you and you sob and marvel.
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We take pleasure not only in the growth of our patient but also in the ripple effect—the salutary influence our patients have upon those whom they touch in life.
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Life is a miserable thing. I have decided to spend my life thinking about it.
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Rather, love is a way of being, a “giving to,” not a ‘falling for”; a mode of relating at large, not an act limited to a single person.
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Hidden in disguise, leaking out in a variety of symptoms. It is the wellspring of many of our worries, stresses, and conflicts.
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