I never want to take away something when I don’t have anything better to offer him in a way.
IRVIN D. YALOMThis is what makes us human. But it comes with a costly price: the wound of mortality. Our existence is forever shadowed by the knowledge that we will grow, blossom, and, inevitably, diminish and die.
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If we climb high enough, we will reach a height from which tragedy ceases to look tragic.
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If I had to pick out a therapist in a movie that I’d like to go see as a personal therapist, it would be Robin Williams in Goodwill Hunting.
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I think we ripple on into others, just like a stone puts its ripples into a brook. That, for me, too, is a source of comfort. It kind of, in a sense, negates the sense of total oblivion.
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Life is a spark between two identical voids, the darkness before birth and the one after death.
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If people in their 20s had more death awareness, would that in fact temper their ambition or drive?
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To care of another individual means to know and to experience the other as fully as possible.
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The pain is there; when you close one door on it, it knocks to come in somewhere else.
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And if you do the latter, you’re not so worried about the everyday trivialities of life, for example, petty concerns about secrecy or privacy.
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Marriage and its entourage of possession and jealousy enslave the spirit.
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Mature love is loving, not being loved.
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Death, however, does itch. It itches all the time. It is always with us, scratching at some inner door.
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Just as you were about to step on it, I asked you “Do you want to cross the footbridge to me?” – Immediately you did not want to anymore; and when I asked you again you remained silent.
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When people don’t have any curiosity about themselves, that is always a bad sign.
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Every person must choose how much truth he can stand.
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The act of revealing oneself fully to another and still being accepted may be the major vehicle of therapeutic help.
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