Rollo May on conformity
Rollo May103 quotes“The hallmark of courage in our age of conformity is the capacity to stand on one’s own convictions – not obstinately or defiantly”
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Freedom is man’s capacity to take a hand in his own development. It is our capacity to mold ourselves.
Rollo MayRollo May We define religion as the assumption that life has meaning. Religion, or lack of it, is shown not in some intellectual or verbal formulations but in one’s total orientation to life.
Rollo MayRollo May This is what makes heroism so important: it reflects our own sense of identity and from this our own heroism is molded.
Rollo MayRollo May The essence of being human is that, in the brief moment we exist on this spinning planet, we can love some persons and some things, in spite of the fact that time and death will ultimately claim us all.
Rollo MayRollo May Communication leads to community, that is, to understanding, intimacy and mutual valuing.
Rollo MayRollo May A person can meet anxiety to the extent that his values are stronger than the threat.
Rollo MayRollo May Mass communication–wonder as it may be technologically and something to be appreciated and valued–presents us wit a serious daner, the danger of conformism, due to the fact that we all view the same things at the same time in all the cities of the country. (p. 73)
Rollo MayRollo May When you are completely absorbed or caught up in something, you become oblivious to things around you, or to the passage of time. It is this absorption in what you are doing that frees your unconscious and releases your creative imagination.
Rollo MayRollo May Courage is necessary to make being and becoming possible.
Rollo MayRollo May Creativity is the encounter of the intensively conscious human being with his world.
Rollo MayRollo May It is an ironic habit of human beings to run faster when we have lost our way.
Rollo MayRollo May One does not become fully human painlessly.
Rollo MayRollo May What anxiety means is it’s as though the world is knocking at your door, and you need to create, you need to make something, you need to do something. I think anxiety, for people who have found their own heart and their own souls, for them it is a stimulus toward creativity, toward courage. It’s what makes us human beings.
Rollo MayRollo May This personal freedom to think and feel and speak authentically and to be conscious of so doing is the quality that distinguishes us as human.
Rollo MayRollo May Creativity is not merely the innocent spontaneity of our youth and childhood; it must also be married to the passion of the adult human being, which is a passion to live beyond one’s death.
Rollo MayRollo May Finding the center of strength within ourselves is in the long run the best contribution we can make to our fellow men. … One person with indigenous inner strength exercises a great calming effect on panic among people around him.
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They bleed not in the mouth but through their ink – indelible and dark.
Juana GarciaJuana Garcia I would rather shoot my arrows than keep them in my bow, I would rather risk it all than risk nothing at all.
ShamaShama I wish I knew then all of the things I know now that I am enough.
TMCTMC I feel like I’m on fire, fighting for a moment on respite – I’m not placing bets.
M.K. StandbyM.K. Standby I found him in all the chaos, and that was when my world started making sense again.
MoomerMoomer The judgement that people cast on you for how you do or do not appear is nothing more than just a projection of their own wounds.
Taj AroraTaj Arora Be grateful for what you have now, even if it’s not everything you wanted.
Sonia SabnisSonia Sabnis It seems strange how we look in the same mirror, yet what stares back, is so painfully different.
Chris AllchinChris Allchin
More on conformity
From now on, I’ll connect the dots my own way.
Bill WattersonBill Watterson With the spread of conformity and image-driven superficiality, the allure of an individuated woman in full possession of herself and her powers will prove irresistible.
Betsy PrioleauBetsy Prioleau All art is based on non-conformity.
Ben ShahnBen Shahn The opposite of courage in our society is not cowardice, it is conformity.
Rollo MayRollo May Resisting conformity and developing some small eccentricities are among the steps to independence and self-confidence.
Al MacInnisAl MacInnis Communism is the death of the soul. It is the organization of total conformity
Adlai Stevenson IIAdlai Stevenson II In ourselves we harbor the intuition of another evolution, of other possibilities of life.
Abdellatif LaabiAbdellatif Laabi I now know, by an almost fatalistic conformity with the facts, that my destiny is to travel.
Che GuevaraChe Guevara
