I dream of a love that is more than two people craving to possess one another.
IRVIN D. YALOMOne comprehends oneself in order not to be preoccupied with oneself.
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Psychiatry is a strange field because, unlike any other field of medicine, you never really finish.
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Some sort of greater awareness of their own finiteness and what their time on earth really is, and what they really want to do with their lives, could help improve them.
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Just as you were about to step on it, I asked you “Do you want to cross the footbridge to me?” – Immediately you did not want to anymore; and when I asked you again you remained silent.
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You know, I think everybody I’ve seen has come from some other therapy, and almost invariably it’s very much the same thing: the therapist is too disinterested, a little too aloof, a little too inactive. They’re not really interested in the person, he doesn’t relate to the person.
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One thing I feel clear about is that it’s important not to let your life live you. Otherwise, you end up at forty feeling you haven’t really lived. What have I learned? Perhaps to live now, so that at fifty I won’t look back upon my forties with regret.
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Perhaps the single most important therapeutic credo that I have is that the unexamined life is not worth living.
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When people don’t have any curiosity about themselves, that is always a bad sign.
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Despair is the price one pays for self-awareness. Look deeply into life, and you’ll always find despair.
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Your greatest instrument is you, yourself, and the work of self-understanding is endless. I’m still learning.
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Pandora’s box, but to re-enter life in a richer, more compassionate manner.
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None of my patients are really troubled by the idea that some part of what they say might be in a book in the future.
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Some piece of ourselves, not necessarily our consciousness, but some piece of ourselves gets passed on and on and on.
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And if you do the latter, you’re not so worried about the everyday trivialities of life, for example, petty concerns about secrecy or privacy.
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Therapists need to have a long experience in personal therapy to see what it’s like to be on the other side of the couch and see what they find helpful or not helpful. And if possible, get into therapy at different stages of their life with different kinds of therapists just to sample a bit.
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Some day soon, perhaps in forty years, there will be no one alive who has ever known me. That’s when I will be truly dead – when I exist in no one’s memory.
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