Love is the extra effort we make in our dealings with those whom we do not like and once you understand that, you understand all. This idea that love overtakes you is nonsense. This is but a polite manifestation of sex. To love another you have to undertake some fragment of their destiny.
QUENTIN CRISPFlowers are words even a baby can understand.
More Quentin Crisp Quotes
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You don’t have to deal with anyone in America. They accept you the way you are.
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The war between the sexes is the only one in which both sides regularly sleep with the enemy.
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Fashion is what you adopt when you don’t know who you are.
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If I were God – and I never understand why I’m not – I should say, “Shop around, I don’t think you’ll find a better bargain than here.”
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The more people one has to love, the more one’s capacity to love stretches.
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Fashion is not style. Nay, we can say more: Fashion is instead of style. Style is an idiom springing spontaneously from the personality but deliberately maintained.
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The world now seems a stunningly ignoble place. It has not really grown all that much worse but appears to have done so because we know so much more about it than we did.
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The search for a life-style involves a journey to the interior. This is not altogether a pleasant experience, because you not only have to take stock of what you consider your assets but you also have to take a long look at what your friends call “the trouble with you.” Nevertheless, the journey is worth making.
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To love another person you have to undertake some fragment of their destiny.
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Of course I lie to people. But I lie altruistically – for our mutual good. The lie is the basic building block of good manners. That may seem mildly shocking to a moralist – but then what isn’t?
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I like living in one room and have never known what people do with the room they are not in.
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The English think that incompetence is the same thing as sincerity.
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Development of character consists solely in moving toward self-sufficiency.
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People say to me, “When did you come out?” But I was never in! When I was about six, I was swanning around the house in clothes that belonged to my mother and my grandmother which I’d found in an attic, saying, “I am a beautiful princess!”
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What would you be like if you were the only person in the world? If you want to be truly happy you must be that person.
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