The blunt large questions become connected to smaller, apparently esoteric ones.
ALAIN DE BOTTONWhat we seek, at the deepest level, is inwardly to resemble, rather than physically to possess, the objects and places that touch us through their beauty.
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It was no longer her absence that wounded me, but my growing indifference to it. Forgetting, however calming, was also a reminder of infidelity to what I had at one time held so dear.
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We are like an exquisite high-speed aircraft which for lack of a tiny part is left stranded beside the runway, rendered slower than a tractor or bicycle.
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Curiosity might be pictured as being made up of chains of small questions extending outwards, sometimes over huge distances, from a central hub composed of a few blunt, large questions.
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True respectability stems not from the will of the majority but from proper reasoning.
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In the works of Lucretius, we find two reasons why we shouldn’t worry about death. If you have had a successful life, Lucretius tell us, there’s no reason to mind its end. And, if you haven’t had a good time, “Why do you seek to add more years, which would also pass but ill?”
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When Proust urges us to evaluate the world properly, he repeatedly reminds us of the value of modest scenes.
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One kind of good book should leave you asking: how did the author know that about me?
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To be shown love is to feel ourselves the object of concern: our presence is noted, our name is registered, our views are listened to, our failings are treated with indulgence and our needs are ministered to. And under such care, we flourish.
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Our greatest furies spring from events which violate our sense of the ground of our existence.
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The finest proof of our loyalty toward one another was our monstrous disloyalties towards everyone else.
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We read the weird tales in newspapers to crowd out the even weirder stuff inside us.
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Socrates, on being insulted in the marketplace, asked by a passerby, “Don’t you worry about being called names?” retorted, “Why? Do you think I should resent it if an ass had kicked me?
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I feel that the great challenge of our time is the communication of ideas.
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It seems that most of us could benefit from a brush with a near-fatal disaster to help us recognise the important things that we are too defeated or embittered to recognise from day to day.
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One of the better guarantors of ending up in a good relationship: an advanced capacity to be alone.
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