Literature is the greatest reality simulator – a machine that puts you through infinitely more situations than you can ever directly witness.
ALAIN DE BOTTONNot being understood may be taken as a sign that there is much in one to understand.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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The challenge of modern relationships: how to prove more interesting than the other’s smartphone.
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We may seek a fortune for no greater reason than to secure the respect and attention of people who would otherwise look straight through us.
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There is a devilishly direct relationship between the significance of an idea and how nervous we become at the prospect of having to think about it.
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Wealth is not an absolute. It is relative to desire. Every time we yearn for something we cannot afford, we grow poorer, whatever our resources. And every time we feel satisfied with what we have, we can be counted as rich, however little we may actually possess.
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Not everyone is worth listening to.
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For paranoia about ‘what other people think’ : remember that only some hate, a very few love – and almost all just don’t care.
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Because the rhythm of conversation makes no allowance for dead periods, because the presence of others calls for continuous responses, we are left to regret the inanity of what we say, and the missed opportunity of what we do not.
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Good books put a finger on emotions that are deeply our own – but that we could never have described on our own.
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The problem isn’t so much finding good ideas (there is no shortage) as embedding the ones we have into everyday practice.
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You normally have to be bashed about a bit by life to see the point of daffodils, sunsets and uneventful nice days.
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Kant and Hegel are interesting thinkers. But I am happy to insist that they are also terrible writers.
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The problem is if you really believe in a society where those who merit to get to the top, get to the top, you’ll also, by implication … believe in a society where those who deserve to get to the bottom also get to the bottom and stay there.
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We should not feel embarrassed by our difficulties, only by our failure to grow anything beautiful from them.
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Socrates, on being insulted in the marketplace, asked by a passerby, “Don’t you worry about being called names?” retorted, “Why? Do you think I should resent it if an ass had kicked me?
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A virtuous, ordinary life, striving for wisdom but never far from folly, is achievement enough.
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