The company of certain people may excite our generosity and sensitivity, while that of others awakens our competitiveness and envy.
ALAIN DE BOTTONNot being understood may be taken as a sign that there is much in one to understand.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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I think people want to get married to end their emotional uncertainty. In a way, they want to end powerful feelings, or certainly the negative ones.
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At the heart of every frustration lies a basic structure: the collision of a wish with an unyielding reality.
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Philosophy had supplied Socrates with convictions in which he had been able to have rational, as opposed to hysterical, confidence when faced with disapproval.
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Dreams reveal we never quite get ‘over’ anything: it’s all still in there somewhere.
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Sweetness is the opposite of machismo, which is everywhere-and I really don’t get on with machismo. I’m interested in sensitivity, and weakness, and fear, and anxiety, because I think that, at the end of the day, behind our masks, that’s what we are.
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It wasn’t only fanatics and drunkards who began conversations with strangers in public.
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Curiosity might be pictured as being made up of chains of small questions extending outwards, sometimes over huge distances, from a central hub composed of a few blunt, large questions.
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The longing for a destiny is no nowhere stronger than in our romantic life. All too often forced to share our bed with those who cannot fathom our soul, can we not be forgiven if we believe ourselves fated to stumble one day upon the man or woman of our dreams.
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Although I don’t believe in God, Bach’s music shows me what a love of God must feel like.
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Taking photographs can assuage the itch for possession sparked by the beauty of a place; our anxiety over losing a precious scene can decline with every click of the shutter.
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To one’s enemies: “I hate myself more than you ever could.
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Work is most fulfilling when you’re at the comfortable, exciting edge of not quite knowing what you are doing.
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The more closely we analyze what we consider ‘sexy,’ the more clearly we will understand that eroticism is the feeling of excitement we experience at finding another human being who shares our values and our sense of the meaning of existence.
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Once I began to consider everything as being of potential interest, objects released latent layers of value.
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What should worry us is not the number of people that oppose us, but how good their reasons are for doing so.
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