What should worry us is not the number of people that oppose us, but how good their reasons are for doing so.
ALAIN DE BOTTONWe will cease to be angry once we cease to be so hopeful.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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There is real danger of a disconnect between what’s on your business card and who you are deep inside, and it’s not a disconnect that the world is ready to be patient with.
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We are not always humiliated by failing; we are humiliated only if we first invest our pride and sense of worth in a given achievement and then do not reach it.
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Arguments are like eels: however logical, they may slip from the minds weak grasp unless fixed there by imagery and style.
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Unhappiness can stem from having only one perspective to play with.
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People only get really interesting when they start to rattle the bars of their cages.
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Must being in love always mean being in pain?
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Maturity: knowing where you’re crazy, trying to warn others of the fact and striving to keep yourself under control.
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What kills us isn’t one big thing, but thousands of tiny obligations we can’t turn down for fear of disappointing others.
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It’s perhaps easier now than ever before to make a good living; it’s perhaps harder than ever before to stay calm, to be free of career anxiety.
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William James once made an acute point about the relationship between happiness and expectation. He argued that satisfaction with ourselves does not require us to succeed in every endeavour.
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Work is most fulfilling when you’re at the comfortable, exciting edge of not quite knowing what you are doing.
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Maturity: the confidence to have no opinions on many things.
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We need a refuge to shore up our states of mind, because so much of the world is opposed to our allegiances. We need our rooms to align us to desirable versions of ourselves and to keep alive the important, evanescent sides of us.
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After 40 (old age for most of man’s history), one should strive to be more or less packed and ready to go were the end call to come.
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When work is not going well, it’s useful to remember that our identities stretch beyond what is on the business card, that we were people long before we became workers – and will continue to be human once we have put our tools down forever.
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