The best cure for one’s bad tendencies is to see them in action in another person.
ALAIN DE BOTTONIt looks like it’s wasting time, but literature is actually the ultimate time-saver – because it gives us access to a range of emotions and events that it would take you years, decades, millennia to try to experience directly.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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One of the unexpectedly important things that art can do for us is to teach us how to suffer more successfully.
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Dreams reveal we never quite get ‘over’ anything: it’s all still in there somewhere.
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One’s doing well if age improves even slightly one’s capacity to hold on to that vital truism: “This too shall pass.
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Because the rhythm of conversation makes no allowance for dead periods, because the presence of others calls for continuous responses, we are left to regret the inanity of what we say, and the missed opportunity of what we do not.
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In the gap between who we wish one day to be and who we are at present, must come pain, anxiety, envy and humiliation.
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Curiosity takes ignorance seriously – and is confident enough to admit when it’s in the dark. It is aware of not knowing. And then it sets out to do something about it.
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Never too late to learn some embarrassingly basic, stupidly obvious things about oneself.
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An argument in a couple: 2 people attempting to introduce each other to important truths – by panicked shouting.
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Most of what makes a book ‘good’ is that we are reading it at the right moment for us.
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The activities of drawing, eating and drinking, all involve assimilations by the self of desirable elements from the world, a transfer of goodness from without to within.
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The happiness that may emerge from taking a second look is central to Proust’s therapeutic conception. It reveals the extent to which our dissatisfactions may be the result of failing to look properly at our lives rather than the result of anything inherently deficient about them.
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Being content is perhaps no less easy than playing the violin well: and requires no less practice.
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Because it’s bad enough not getting what you want, but it’s even worse to have an idea of what it is you want and find out at the end of the journey that it isn’t, in fact, what you wanted all along.
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The very act of drawing an object, however badly, swiftly takes the drawer from a woolly sense of what the object looks like to a precise awareness of its component parts and particularities.
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It’s hard loving those who don’t much like themselves: “If you’re so great, why would you think I’m so great.
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