Because it’s bad enough not getting what you want, but it’s even worse to have an idea of what it is you want and find out at the end of the journey that it isn’t, in fact, what you wanted all along.
ALAIN DE BOTTONIt looks like it’s wasting time, but literature is actually the ultimate time-saver – because it gives us access to a range of emotions and events that it would take you years, decades, millennia to try to experience directly.
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We often lose our tempers not with those who are actually to blame; just with those who love us enough to forgive us our foul moods.
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Not everyone is worth listening to.
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Insomnia is a glamorous term for thoughts you forgot to have in the day.
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Must being in love always mean being in pain?
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Most of what makes a book ‘good’ is that we are reading it at the right moment for us.
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There is a longing for a return to a time without the need for choices, free of the regret at the inevitable loss that all choice (however wonderful) has entailed.
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Serious journalists often imagine society is adrift because people don’t know certain things.
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It is striking how much more seriously we are likely to be taken after we have been dead a few centuries.
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There is no such thing as work-life balance. Everything worth fighting for unbalances your life.
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I went to church and couldn’t swallow it. The music was nice but I don’t belong there.
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A virtuous, ordinary life, striving for wisdom but never far from folly, is achievement enough.
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Our sadness won’t be of the searing kind but more like a blend of joy and melancholy: joy at the perfection we see before us, melancholy at an awareness of how seldom we are sufficiently blessed to encounter anything of its kind.
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In the gap between who we wish one day to be and who we are at present, must come pain, anxiety, envy and humiliation.
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Wealth is not an absolute. It is relative to desire. Every time we yearn for something we cannot afford, we grow poorer, whatever our resources. And every time we feel satisfied with what we have, we can be counted as rich, however little we may actually possess.
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Travel agents would be wiser to ask us what we hope to change about our lives rather than simply where we wish to go.
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