The pleasure we derive from journeys is perhaps dependent more on the mindset with which we travel than on the destination we travel to.
ALAIN DE BOTTONOnly as we mature does affection begin to depend on achievement.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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The most attractive are not those who allow us to kiss them at once [we soon feel ungrateful] or those who never allow us to kiss them [we soon forget them], but those who coyly lead us between the two extremes.
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Most victories are, in the best way, acts of revenge.
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We will cease to be angry once we cease to be so hopeful.
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Forgiveness requires a sense that bad behaviour is a sign of suffering rather than malice.
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A notorious inability to express emotions makes human beings the only animals capable of suicide.
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The company of certain people may excite our generosity and sensitivity, while that of others awakens our competitiveness and envy.
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Reputation matters so much only because people so seldom think for themselves.
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The arrogance that says analysing the relationship between reasons and causes is more important than writing a philosophy of shyness or sadness or friendship drives me nuts. I can’t accept that.
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Travel agents would be wiser to ask us what we hope to change about our lives rather than simply where we wish to go.
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A good half of the art of living is resilience.
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It is not just nature that defies us. Human life is as overwhelming… If we spend time in it [the vast spaces of nature], they may help us to accept more graciously the great, unfathomable events that molest our lives and will inevitably return us to dust.
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The largest part of what we call ‘personality’ is determined by how we’ve opted to defend ourselves against anxiety and sadness”.
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One of the best protections against disappointment is to have a lot going on.
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It is perhaps when our lives are at their most problematic that we are likely to be most receptive to beautiful things.
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Our greatest furies spring from events which violate our sense of the ground of our existence.
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