Those who divorce aren’t necessarily the most unhappy, just those neatly able to believe their misery is caused by one other person.
ALAIN DE BOTTONA ‘good job’ can be both practically attractive while still not good enough to devote your entire life to.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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An argument in a couple: 2 people attempting to introduce each other to important truths – by panicked shouting.
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Serious journalists often imagine society is adrift because people don’t know certain things.
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The challenge for a human now is to be more interesting to another than his or her smartphone.
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Writing isn’t a career choice. It’s self-medication that over time precipitates the madness it was meant to ward off.
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We often lose our tempers not with those who are actually to blame; just with those who love us enough to forgive us our foul moods.
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The need for love hallucinates a prince or princess. The oasis complex is never a complete delusion: the man in the desert does see something on the horizon. It is just that the palms have withered, the well is dry, and the place is infected with locusts.
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Most anger stems from feelings of weakness, sadness and fear: hard to remember when one is at the receiving end of its defiant roar.
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Maturity: the confidence to have no opinions on many things.
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It’s perhaps easier now than ever before to make a good living; it’s perhaps harder than ever before to stay calm, to be free of career anxiety.
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Envy: a confused, tangled guide to one’s own ambitions.
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Most good thinking has its origin in fear.
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The most attractive are not those who allow us to kiss them at once [we soon feel ungrateful] or those who never allow us to kiss them [we soon forget them], but those who coyly lead us between the two extremes.
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Most of us still caged within careers chosen for us by our not entirely worldly 18-22 year old selves.
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Which seems no less relevant in the secular realm than in the religious one-that we have within us a precious, childlike, vulnerable core which we should nourish and nurture on its turbulent journey through life.
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The only way to be happy is to realise how much depends on how you look at things
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