You have to be quite heavily invested in someone to do them the honour of telling them you’re annoyed with them.
ALAIN DE BOTTONThe only way to be happy is to realise how much depends on how you look at things
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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One of our major flaws, and causes of unhappiness, is that we find it hard to take note of appreciate and be grateful for what is always around us. We suffer because we lose sight of the value of what is before us and yearn, often unfairly, for the imagined attraction elsewhere.
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We should read other people’s books in order to learn what we feel; it is our own thoughts we should be developing, even if it is another writer’s thought that help us to do so.
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Writing isn’t a career choice. It’s self-medication that over time precipitates the madness it was meant to ward off.
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The challenge of modern relationships: how to prove more interesting than the other’s smartphone.
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The greatest difficulty of Travel is that one is forced to take oneself along.
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We will cease to be angry once we cease to be so hopeful.
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Bad art might be defined as a series of bad choices about what to show and what to leave out.
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Only by declaring a book completely finished can one start to see how much remains to be done on it.
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Art cannot single-handedly create enthusiasm… it merely contributes to enthusiasm and guides us to be more conscious of feelings that we might previously have experienced only tentatively or hurriedly.
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Because the rhythm of conversation makes no allowance for dead periods, because the presence of others calls for continuous responses, we are left to regret the inanity of what we say, and the missed opportunity of what we do not.
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We are like an exquisite high-speed aircraft which for lack of a tiny part is left stranded beside the runway, rendered slower than a tractor or bicycle.
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We read the weird tales in newspapers to crowd out the even weirder stuff inside us.
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When Proust urges us to evaluate the world properly, he repeatedly reminds us of the value of modest scenes.
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The challenge for a human now is to be more interesting to another than his or her smartphone.
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Our homes do not have to offer us permanent occupancy or store our clothes to merit the name. To speak of home in relation to a building is simply to recognise its harmony with our own prized internal song. Home can be an airport or a library, a garden or a motorway diner.
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