It’s hard loving those who don’t much like themselves: “If you’re so great, why would you think I’m so great.
ALAIN DE BOTTONThe only way to be happy is to realise how much depends on how you look at things
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The need for love hallucinates a prince or princess. The oasis complex is never a complete delusion: the man in the desert does see something on the horizon. It is just that the palms have withered, the well is dry, and the place is infected with locusts.
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I think people want to get married to end their emotional uncertainty. In a way, they want to end powerful feelings, or certainly the negative ones.
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The fear of saying something stupid (which stupid people never have) has censored far more good ideas than bad ones.
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Philosophy had supplied Socrates with convictions in which he had been able to have rational, as opposed to hysterical, confidence when faced with disapproval.
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Every time we feel satisfied with what we have, we can be counted as rich, however little we may actually possess.
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Our greatest furies spring from events which violate our sense of the ground of our existence.
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He did not mean to depress us, rather to free us from expectations which inspire bitterness. It is consoling, when love has let us down, to hear that happiness was never part of the plan.
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Cynics are – beneath it all – only idealists with awkwardly high standards.
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When you look at the Moon, you think, ‘I’m really small. What are my problems?’ It sets things into perspective. We should all look at the Moon a bit more often.
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A virtuous, ordinary life, striving for wisdom but never far from folly, is achievement enough.
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There is no such thing as work-life balance. Everything worth fighting for unbalances your life.
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One of the better guarantors of ending up in a good relationship: an advanced capacity to be alone.
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It wasn’t only fanatics and drunkards who began conversations with strangers in public.
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Work finally begins when the fear of doing nothing exceeds the fear of doing it badly.
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The very act of drawing an object, however badly, swiftly takes the drawer from a woolly sense of what the object looks like to a precise awareness of its component parts and particularities.
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