The only people we can think of as normal are those we don’t yet know very well.
ALAIN DE BOTTONWork finally begins when the fear of doing nothing exceeds the fear of doing it badly.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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We need a refuge to shore up our states of mind, because so much of the world is opposed to our allegiances. We need our rooms to align us to desirable versions of ourselves and to keep alive the important, evanescent sides of us.
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The finest proof of our loyalty toward one another was our monstrous disloyalties towards everyone else.
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Literature is the greatest reality simulator – a machine that puts you through infinitely more situations than you can ever directly witness.
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Feeling lost, crazy and desperate belongs to a good life as much as optimism, certainty and reason.
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Only by declaring a book completely finished can one start to see how much remains to be done on it.
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The pleasure we derive from journeys is perhaps dependent more on the mindset with which we travel than on the destination we travel to.
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The very act of drawing an object, however badly, swiftly takes the drawer from a woolly sense of what the object looks like to a precise awareness of its component parts and particularities.
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Do you love me enough that I may be weak with you? Everyone loves strength, but do you love me for my weakness? That is the real test.
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We need a home in the psychological sense as much as we need one in the physical: to compensate for a vulnerability.
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Kant and Hegel are interesting thinkers. But I am happy to insist that they are also terrible writers.
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I passionately believe that’s it’s not just what you say that counts, it’s also how you say it – that the success of your argument critically depends on your manner of presenting it.
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Dreams reveal we never quite get ‘over’ anything: it’s all still in there somewhere.
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We are all more intelligent than we are capable, and awareness of the insanity of love has never saved anyone from the disease.
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Only as we mature does affection begin to depend on achievement.
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Serious journalists often imagine society is adrift because people don’t know certain things.
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