There’s a whole category of people who miss out by not allowing themselves to be weird enough.
ALAIN DE BOTTONThere may be significant things to learn about people by looking at what annoys them most.
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At the heart of every frustration lies a basic structure: the collision of a wish with an unyielding reality.
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We read the weird tales in newspapers to crowd out the even weirder stuff inside us.
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In the oasis complex, the thirsty man images he sees water, palm trees, and shade not because he has evidence for the belief, but because he has a need for it. Desperate needs bring about a hallucination of their solution: thirst hallucinates water.
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The activities of drawing, eating and drinking, all involve assimilations by the self of desirable elements from the world, a transfer of goodness from without to within.
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Work is most fulfilling when you’re at the comfortable, exciting edge of not quite knowing what you are doing.
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A good half of the art of living is resilience.
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Our greatest furies spring from events which violate our sense of the ground of our existence.
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When I see someone like Richard Dawkins, I see my father. I grew up with that. I’m basically the child of Richard Dawkins.
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Yet often, they know but just don’t care. So the task of serious journalism isn’t just to lay out truths. It is to make vital truths compelling to a big audience.
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Unnatural to expect that learning to be happy should be any easier than, say, learning to play the violin or require any less practice.
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A virtuous, ordinary life, striving for wisdom but never far from folly, is achievement enough.
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When you look at the Moon, you think, ‘I’m really small. What are my problems?’ It sets things into perspective. We should all look at the Moon a bit more often.
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We should not feel embarrassed by our difficulties, only by our failure to grow anything beautiful from them.
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So many complaints boil down to the belly ache of the fragile, mortal, ignored ego in a vast and indifferent universe.
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Because the rhythm of conversation makes no allowance for dead periods, because the presence of others calls for continuous responses, we are left to regret the inanity of what we say, and the missed opportunity of what we do not.
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