What kills us isn’t one big thing, but thousands of tiny obligations we can’t turn down for fear of disappointing others.
ALAIN DE BOTTONRather than employing it as a supplement to active, conscious seeing, they used the medium as a substitute, paying less attention to the world than they had done previously, taking it on faith that photography automatically assured them possession of it.
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The activities of drawing, eating and drinking, all involve assimilations by the self of desirable elements from the world, a transfer of goodness from without to within.
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Booksellers are the most valuable destination for the lonely, given the numbers of books that were written because authors couldn’t find anyone to talk to.
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The materialistic view of happiness of our age starkly revealed in our understanding of the word “luxury.
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There’s a whole category of people who miss out by not allowing themselves to be weird enough.
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I think people want to get married to end their emotional uncertainty. In a way, they want to end powerful feelings, or certainly the negative ones.
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The greatest works of art speak to us without knowing us.
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Our responses to the world are crucially moulded by the company we keep, for we temper our curiosity to fit in with the expectations of others.
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A notorious inability to express emotions makes human beings the only animals capable of suicide.
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Writing isn’t a career choice. It’s self-medication that over time precipitates the madness it was meant to ward off.
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You need a long hard day’s work to reveal the logic of the craving for very bad tv and alcohol.
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The fear of saying something stupid (which stupid people never have) has censored far more good ideas than bad ones.
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True respectability stems not from the will of the majority but from proper reasoning.
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It’s hard loving those who don’t much like themselves: “If you’re so great, why would you think I’m so great.
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Good sex isn’t just fun, it keeps us sane and happy. Having sex with someone makes us feel wanted, alive and potent.
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I passionately believe that’s it’s not just what you say that counts, it’s also how you say it – that the success of your argument critically depends on your manner of presenting it.
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