Everyone returns us to a different sense of ourselves, for we become a little of who they think we are.
ALAIN DE BOTTONRather than employing it as a supplement to active, conscious seeing, they used the medium as a substitute, paying less attention to the world than they had done previously, taking it on faith that photography automatically assured them possession of it.
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Anyone who isn’t embarrassed of who they were last year probably isn’t learning enough.
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You normally have to be bashed about a bit by life to see the point of daffodils, sunsets and uneventful nice days.
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In a secularising world, art has replaced religion as a touchstone of our reverence and devotion.
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A ‘good job’ can be both practically attractive while still not good enough to devote your entire life to.
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Our homes do not have to offer us permanent occupancy or store our clothes to merit the name. To speak of home in relation to a building is simply to recognise its harmony with our own prized internal song. Home can be an airport or a library, a garden or a motorway diner.
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The largest part of what we call ‘personality’ is determined by how we’ve opted to defend ourselves against anxiety and sadness”.
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It is not just nature that defies us. Human life is as overwhelming… If we spend time in it [the vast spaces of nature], they may help us to accept more graciously the great, unfathomable events that molest our lives and will inevitably return us to dust.
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There is a devilishly direct relationship between the significance of an idea and how nervous we become at the prospect of having to think about it.
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True respectability stems not from the will of the majority but from proper reasoning.
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Booksellers are the most valuable destination for the lonely, given the numbers of books that were written because authors couldn’t find anyone to talk to.
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Only by declaring a book completely finished can one start to see how much remains to be done on it.
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It is striking how much more seriously we are likely to be taken after we have been dead a few centuries.
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One of the best protections against disappointment is to have a lot going on.
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Travel agents would be wiser to ask us what we hope to change about our lives rather than simply where we wish to go.
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Newspapers are being read all around. The point is not, of course, to glean new information, but rather to coax the mind out of its sleep-induced introspective temper.
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