It was like we were exchanging codes, on how to be a father and a daughter, like we’d read about it in a manual, translated from another language, and were doing our best with what we could understand.
AIMEE BENDERShe is the first gesture that creates a quiet that is full enough to make the baby sleep. My genes, my love, are rubber bands and rope; make yourself a structure you can live inside. Amen.
More Aimee Bender Quotes
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I want to be violated by insight.
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That she might not actually know us seemed the humblest thing a mother could admit.
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But the sky is interesting, it changes all the time.
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There’s a gift in your lap and it’s beautifully wrapped and it’s not your birthday.
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But what I kept wondering about is this: that first second when she felt her skirt burning, what did she think?
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But I loved George in part because he believed me; because if I stood in a cold, plain room and yelled FIRE, he would walk over and ask me why.
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I knew if I ate anything of hers again, it would lkely tell me the same message: help me,
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Kissing George was a little like rolling in caramel after spending years surviving off rice sticks.
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Mom flipped through the magazines like the pages needed to be slapped.
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I give boring people something to discuss over corn.
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It is so often surprising, who rescues you at your lowest moments.
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I’m obsessed with adolescence. I love to write about people in their 20s.
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Many kids, it seemed, would find out that their parents were flawed, messed-up people later in life, and I didn’t appreciate getting to know it all so strong and early.
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When the light at Vernon turned green, we stepped into the street and George grabbed my hand and the ghosts of our younger selves crossed with us.
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I am the drying meadow; you the unspoken apology; he is the fluctuating distance between mother and son.
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