Not getting bored of my own story and/or character is one of the main struggles.
AIMEE BENDERListen. Look. Desire is a house. Desire needs closed space. Desire runs out of doors or windows, or slats or pinpricks, it can’t fit under the sky, too large. Close the doors. Close the windows.
More Aimee Bender Quotes
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Many kids, it seemed, would find out that their parents were flawed, messed-up people later in life, and I didn’t appreciate getting to know it all so strong and early.
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As soon as you laugh from nerves or make a joke or say something just to say something or get all involved with the bushes, then you blow open a window in your house of desire and it can’t heat up as well. Cold draft comes in.
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A Dorito asks nothing of you, which is its great gift. It only asks that you are not there.
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That’s the thing with handmade items. They still have the person’s mark on them, and when you hold them, you feel less alone.
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While she cut the mushrooms, she cried more than she had at the grave.
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The stories themselves haunt, they stick around, they linger, inhabiting a little corner of the reader’s brain and resurfacing to evoke mystery or sadness or longing.
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I peeled the skin off a grape in slippery little triangles, and I understood then that I would be undressing every item of food I could because my clothes would be staying on.
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I knew if I ate anything of hers again, it would lkely tell me the same message: help me,
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The most so far, because she found the saddest thing of all to be the simple truth of her capacity to move on.
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That at the same time of this very intimate act of concentrating so carefully on the details of our mother’s palm and fingertips.
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When language is treated beautifully and interestingly, it can feel good for the body: It’s nourishing; it’s rejuvenating.
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Mom loved my brother more. Not that she didn’t love me – I felt the wash of her love every day.
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But the sky is interesting, it changes all the time.
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Kissing George was a little like rolling in caramel after spending years surviving off rice sticks.
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It’s such a fraught and exciting and kind of horrible time.
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