With my hand in his, I looked at all the apartment buildings with rushes of love, peering in the wide streetside windows that revealed living rooms painted in dark burgandies and matte reds.
AIMEE BENDERMy lover is experiencing reverse evolution.
More Aimee Bender Quotes
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It’s a pleasure to dive into Hirshberg’s storytelling skills in American Morons.
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That she might not actually know us seemed the humblest thing a mother could admit.
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It was a fleeting statement, one I didn’t think she’d hold on to; after all, she had birthed us alone, diapered and fed us, helped us with homework, kissed and hugged us, poured her love into us.
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I felt the crumpled paper that had taken the place of my lungs expand as if released from a fist.
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That’s the thing with handmade items. They still have the person’s mark on them, and when you hold them, you feel less alone.
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There’s a gift in your lap and it’s beautifully wrapped and it’s not your birthday.
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I didn’t mind the quiet stretches. It was like we were trying out the idea of being side by side.
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Pouring over me, but it was a different kind, siphoned from a different, and tamer, body of water. I was her darling daughter; Joseph was her it.
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To see someone you love, in a bad setting, is one of the great barometers of gratitude.
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But I loved George in part because he believed me; because if I stood in a cold, plain room and yelled FIRE, he would walk over and ask me why.
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Sometimes, she said, mostly to herself, I feel I do not know my children…
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The writing I tend to think of as ‘good’ is good because it’s mysterious.
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The wine glasses are empty except for that one undrinkable red spot at the bottom.
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It was like we were exchanging codes, on how to be a father and a daughter, like we’d read about it in a manual, translated from another language, and were doing our best with what we could understand.
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It seems the best work I do is when I am really allowing the unconscious to rule the page and then later I can go back and hack around and make sense of things.
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