I was with them for all of it, but more like an echo than a participant.
AIMEE BENDERThat she might not actually know us seemed the humblest thing a mother could admit.
More Aimee Bender Quotes
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It’s such a fraught and exciting and kind of horrible time.
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Light is good company, when alone; I took my comfort where I found it, and the warmest yellow bulb in the living-room lamp had become a kind of radiant babysitter all its own.
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Pouring over me, but it was a different kind, siphoned from a different, and tamer, body of water. I was her darling daughter; Joseph was her it.
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We hit the sidewalk, and dropped hands. How I wished, right then, that the whole world was a street.
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When the light at Vernon turned green, we stepped into the street and George grabbed my hand and the ghosts of our younger selves crossed with us.
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He was also removing all traces of any tiny leftover parts, and suddenly a ritual which I’d always found incestuous and gross seemed to me more like a desperate act on Joseph’s part to get out, to leave, to extract every little last remnant and bring it into open air.
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I felt the crumpled paper that had taken the place of my lungs expand as if released from a fist.
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To see someone you love, in a bad setting, is one of the great barometers of gratitude.
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That at the same time of this very intimate act of concentrating so carefully on the details of our mother’s palm and fingertips.
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You can ruin anything if you focus at it.
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It is all about numbers. It is all about sequence. It’s the mathematical logic of being alive.
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I give boring people something to discuss over corn.
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That’s the thing with handmade items. They still have the person’s mark on them, and when you hold them, you feel less alone.
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And the warmth of the music inside her, did she believe, for even one glorious second, that her passion had arrived?
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I have had with novel writing, and I have put to bed big chunks of work that just didn’t sustain my interest.
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