That she might not actually know us seemed the humblest thing a mother could admit.
AIMEE BENDERMom flipped through the magazines like the pages needed to be slapped.
More Aimee Bender Quotes
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It was a fleeting statement, one I didn’t think she’d hold on to; after all, she had birthed us alone, diapered and fed us, helped us with homework, kissed and hugged us, poured her love into us.
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I was right at the edge of their circle, like the tail of a Q…
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To see someone you love, in a bad setting, is one of the great barometers of gratitude.
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Pouring over me, but it was a different kind, siphoned from a different, and tamer, body of water. I was her darling daughter; Joseph was her it.
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I’m obsessed with adolescence. I love to write about people in their 20s.
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The wine glasses are empty except for that one undrinkable red spot at the bottom.
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It seems the best work I do is when I am really allowing the unconscious to rule the page and then later I can go back and hack around and make sense of things.
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Listen. Look. Desire is a house. Desire needs closed space. Desire runs out of doors or windows, or slats or pinpricks, it can’t fit under the sky, too large. Close the doors. Close the windows.
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I have had with novel writing, and I have put to bed big chunks of work that just didn’t sustain my interest.
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Mom loved my brother more. Not that she didn’t love me – I felt the wash of her love every day.
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And the warmth of the music inside her, did she believe, for even one glorious second, that her passion had arrived?
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I watched as she added a question mark at the end. Arc, line, space, dot.
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She is the first gesture that creates a quiet that is full enough to make the baby sleep. My genes, my love, are rubber bands and rope; make yourself a structure you can live inside. Amen.
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Sometimes, she said, mostly to herself, I feel I do not know my children…
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You’re the perfect girl’, he said, rubbing his chin. ‘You expect nothing.
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