You feel wonderful, you feel like somebody knows you’re alive, you feel fear because it could be a bomb, because you think you’re that important.
AIMEE BENDERIt was like we were exchanging codes, on how to be a father and a daughter, like we’d read about it in a manual, translated from another language, and were doing our best with what we could understand.
More Aimee Bender Quotes
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I was right at the edge of their circle, like the tail of a Q…
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I like birthday cake. It’s so symbolic. It’s a tempting symbol to load with something more complicated than just ‘Happy birthday!’ because it’s this emblem of childhood and a happy day.
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Sometimes, she said, mostly to herself, I feel I do not know my children…
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Mom loved my brother more. Not that she didn’t love me – I felt the wash of her love every day.
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I could feel the tears beginning to collect in my throat again, but I pushed them apart, away from each other. Tears are only a threat in groups.
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It seems the best work I do is when I am really allowing the unconscious to rule the page and then later I can go back and hack around and make sense of things.
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I felt the crumpled paper that had taken the place of my lungs expand as if released from a fist.
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She is the first gesture that creates a quiet that is full enough to make the baby sleep. My genes, my love, are rubber bands and rope; make yourself a structure you can live inside. Amen.
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I knew if I ate anything of hers again, it would lkely tell me the same message: help me,
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My eyelids are my own private cave, he murmured. That I can go to anytime I want.
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But what I kept wondering about is this: that first second when she felt her skirt burning, what did she think?
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It seemed to happen in springs, the revealing of things.
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This is why everyone who eats a Whopper leaves a little more depressed than they were when they came in. Nobody cooked that burger.
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The wine glasses are empty except for that one undrinkable red spot at the bottom.
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Large meadows are lovely for picnics and romping, but they are for the lighter feelings. Meadows do not make me want to write.
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