There is nothing more difficult than waking someone who is only pretending to be asleep.
TUTU DESMONDForgiveness is simply about understanding that every one of us is both inherently good and inherently flawed.
More Tutu Desmond Quotes
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Dear Child of God, I am sorry to say that suffering is not optional.
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Within every hopeless situation and every seemingly hopeless person lies the possibility of transformation
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Human beings are actually created for the transcendent, for the sublime, for the beautiful, for the truthful, and all of us are given the task of trying to make this world a little more hospitable to these beautiful things.
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Dear Child of God, I write these words because we all experience sadness, we all come at times to despair, and we all lose hope that the suffering in our lives and in the world will ever end.
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Be nice to whites, they need you to rediscover their humanity.
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We are not responsible for what breaks us, but we can be responsible for what puts us back together again. Naming the hurt is how we begin to repair our broken parts.
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We do not heal in isolation. When we reach out and connect with one another—when we tell the story, name the hurt, grant forgiveness, and renew or release the relationship—our suffering begins to transform.
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God is transforming the world now–through us–because God loves us.
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We must be ready to learn from one another, not claiming that we alone possess all truth and that somehow we have a corner on God.
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Forgiveness is truly the grace by which we enable another person to get up, and get up with dignity, to begin anew.
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A very important but difficult piece of renewing relationships is accepting responsibility for our part in any conflict.
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Forgiveness does not relieve someone of responsibility for what they have done. Forgiveness does not erase accountability. It is not about turning a blind eye or even turning the other cheek.
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A person is a person through other persons.
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Like when you sit in front of a fire in winter — you are just there in front of the fire. You don’t have to be smart or anything. The fire warms you.
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We are made for loving. If we don’t love, we will be like plants without water.
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