We do not heal in isolation. When we reach out and connect with one another—when we tell the story, name the hurt, grant forgiveness, and renew or release the relationship—our suffering begins to transform.
TUTU DESMONDForgiveness is simply about understanding that every one of us is both inherently good and inherently flawed.
More Tutu Desmond Quotes
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If you are setting out to be joyful you are not going to end up being joyful. You’re going to find yourself turned in on yourself. It’s like a flower. You open, you blossom, really because of other people.
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Do your little bit of good where you are; it’s those little bits of good put together that overwhelm the world.
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Give a man a fish and feed him for a day. Teach a man to fish and feed him for a lifetime. Teach a man to cycle and he will realize fishing is stupid and boring.
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Though wrong gratifies in the moment, good yields its gifts over a lifetime.
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Life of wholeness does not depend on what we experience. Wholeness depends on how we experience our lives
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Discovering more joy does not, save us from the inevitability of hardship and heartbreak.
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Religion is like a knife: you can either use it to cut bread, or stick in someone’s back.
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Be nice to whites, they need you to rediscover their humanity.
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Forgiveness does not relieve someone of responsibility for what they have done. Forgiveness does not erase accountability. It is not about turning a blind eye or even turning the other cheek.
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You don’t choose your family. They are God’s gift to you, as you are to them.
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Like when you sit in front of a fire in winter — you are just there in front of the fire. You don’t have to be smart or anything. The fire warms you.
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Forgiving is not forgetting; its actually remembering–remembering and not using your right to hit back. Its a second chance for a new beginning. And the remembering part is particularly important. Especially if you dont want to repeat what happened.
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Within every hopeless situation and every seemingly hopeless person lies the possibility of transformation
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A person is a person through other persons.
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We learn from history that we don’t learn from history.
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