Forgiving is not forgetting; its actually remembering–remembering and not using your right to hit back. Its a second chance for a new beginning. And the remembering part is particularly important. Especially if you dont want to repeat what happened.
TUTU DESMONDWithin every hopeless situation and every seemingly hopeless person lies the possibility of transformation
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We do not heal in isolation. When we reach out and connect with one another—when we tell the story, name the hurt, grant forgiveness, and renew or release the relationship—our suffering begins to transform.
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Forgiveness is truly the grace by which we enable another person to get up, and get up with dignity, to begin anew.
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The path of joy was connection and the path of sorrow was separation.
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Dear Child of God, I write these words because we all experience sadness, we all come at times to despair, and we all lose hope that the suffering in our lives and in the world will ever end.
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You don’t choose your family. They are God’s gift to you, as you are to them.
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To protect our children, we must talk to them about rape.
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Human beings are actually created for the transcendent, for the sublime, for the beautiful, for the truthful, and all of us are given the task of trying to make this world a little more hospitable to these beautiful things.
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Don’t raise your voice, improve your argument.
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Dear Child of God, I am sorry to say that suffering is not optional.
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We learn from history that we don’t learn from history.
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Religion is like a knife: you can either use it to cut bread, or stick in someone’s back.
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Out of the cacophony of random suffering and chaos that can mark human life, the life artist sees or creates a symphony of meaning and order.
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A person is a person through other persons.
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Forgiveness does not relieve someone of responsibility for what they have done. Forgiveness does not erase accountability. It is not about turning a blind eye or even turning the other cheek.
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We need other human beings in order to be human. I am because other people are. A person is entitled to a stable community life, and the first of these communities is the family.
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