Forgiveness does not relieve someone of responsibility for what they have done. Forgiveness does not erase accountability. It is not about turning a blind eye or even turning the other cheek.
TUTU DESMONDBe nice to whites, they need you to rediscover their humanity.
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Out of the cacophony of random suffering and chaos that can mark human life, the life artist sees or creates a symphony of meaning and order.
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There comes a point where we need to stop just pulling people out of the river. We need to go upstream to find out why they’re falling in.
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The path of joy was connection and the path of sorrow was separation.
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If you want to keep people subjugated, the last thing you place in their hands is a Bible. There’s nothing more radical, nothing more revolutionary, nothing more subversive against injustice and oppression than the Bible.
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We may be surprised at the people we find in heaven. God has a soft spot for sinners. His standards are quite low.
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Forgiving is not forgetting; its actually remembering–remembering and not using your right to hit back. Its a second chance for a new beginning. And the remembering part is particularly important. Especially if you dont want to repeat what happened.
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In the end what matters is not how good we are but how good God is. Not how much we love Him but how much He loves us. And God loves us whoever we are, whatever we’ve done or failed to do, whatever we believe or can’t.
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Dear Child of God, I am sorry to say that suffering is not optional.
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Life of wholeness does not depend on what we experience. Wholeness depends on how we experience our lives
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It is through weakness and vulnerability that most of us learn empathy and compassion and discover our soul.
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A very important but difficult piece of renewing relationships is accepting responsibility for our part in any conflict.
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Forgiveness is simply about understanding that every one of us is both inherently good and inherently flawed.
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If you are neutral in situations of injustice, you have chosen the side of the oppressor. If an elephant has its foot on the tail of a mouse, and you say that you are neutral, the mouse will not appreciate your neutrality.
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Life is more than breath and a heartbeat; meaning and purpose are the life of life.
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We do not heal in isolation. When we reach out and connect with one another—when we tell the story, name the hurt, grant forgiveness, and renew or release the relationship—our suffering begins to transform.
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