When we see others as separate, they become a threat. When we see others as part of us, as connected, as interdependent, then there is no challenge we cannot face—together.
TUTU DESMONDWe are made for loving. If we don’t love, we will be like plants without water.
More Tutu Desmond Quotes
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There comes a point where we need to stop just pulling people out of the river. We need to go upstream to find out why they’re falling in.
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Life is more than breath and a heartbeat; meaning and purpose are the life of life.
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A very important but difficult piece of renewing relationships is accepting responsibility for our part in any conflict.
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A person is a person through other persons; you can’t be human in isolation; you are human only in relationships.
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If you are setting out to be joyful you are not going to end up being joyful. You’re going to find yourself turned in on yourself. It’s like a flower. You open, you blossom, really because of other people.
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I do believe there are monstrous and evil acts, but I do not believe those who commit such acts are monsters or evil.
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We need other human beings in order to be human. I am because other people are. A person is entitled to a stable community life, and the first of these communities is the family.
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Dear Child of God, I write these words because we all experience sadness, we all come at times to despair, and we all lose hope that the suffering in our lives and in the world will ever end.
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If you want to keep people subjugated, the last thing you place in their hands is a Bible. There’s nothing more radical, nothing more revolutionary, nothing more subversive against injustice and oppression than the Bible.
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Human beings are actually created for the transcendent, for the sublime, for the beautiful, for the truthful, and all of us are given the task of trying to make this world a little more hospitable to these beautiful things.
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We do not heal in isolation. When we reach out and connect with one another—when we tell the story, name the hurt, grant forgiveness, and renew or release the relationship—our suffering begins to transform.
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Don’t raise your voice, improve your argument.
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You show your humanity by how you see yourself not as apart from others but from your connection to others.
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Forgiveness is truly the grace by which we enable another person to get up, and get up with dignity, to begin anew.
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Differences are not intended to separate, to alienate. We are different precisely in order to realize our need of one another.
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