We do not heal in isolation. When we reach out and connect with one another—when we tell the story, name the hurt, grant forgiveness, and renew or release the relationship—our suffering begins to transform.
TUTU DESMONDLanguage is very powerful. Language does not just describe reality. Language creates the reality it describes.
More Tutu Desmond Quotes
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Be nice to whites, they need you to rediscover their humanity.
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Our maturity will be judged by how well we are able to agree to disagree and yet continue to love one another, to care for one another, and cherish one another and seek the greater good of the other.
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We need other human beings in order to be human. I am because other people are. A person is entitled to a stable community life, and the first of these communities is the family.
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The path of joy was connection and the path of sorrow was separation.
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Dear Child of God, I am sorry to say that suffering is not optional.
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Life of wholeness does not depend on what we experience. Wholeness depends on how we experience our lives
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You don’t choose your family. They are God’s gift to you, as you are to them.
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We learn from history that we don’t learn from history.
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There is nothing more difficult than waking someone who is only pretending to be asleep.
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Life is more than breath and a heartbeat; meaning and purpose are the life of life.
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When we see others as separate, they become a threat. When we see others as part of us, as connected, as interdependent, then there is no challenge we cannot face—together.
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We are made for loving. If we don’t love, we will be like plants without water.
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We may be surprised at the people we find in heaven. God has a soft spot for sinners. His standards are quite low.
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Do your little bit of good where you are; it’s those little bits of good put together that overwhelm the world.
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Human beings are actually created for the transcendent, for the sublime, for the beautiful, for the truthful, and all of us are given the task of trying to make this world a little more hospitable to these beautiful things.
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