You don’t choose your family. They are God’s gift to you, as you are to them.
TUTU DESMONDIf you are setting out to be joyful you are not going to end up being joyful. You’re going to find yourself turned in on yourself. It’s like a flower. You open, you blossom, really because of other people.
More Tutu Desmond Quotes
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I do believe there are monstrous and evil acts, but I do not believe those who commit such acts are monsters or evil.
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Transformation begins in you, wherever you are, whatever has happened, however you are suffering. Transformation is always possible.
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Forgiving is not forgetting; its actually remembering–remembering and not using your right to hit back. Its a second chance for a new beginning. And the remembering part is particularly important. Especially if you dont want to repeat what happened.
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We do not heal in isolation. When we reach out and connect with one another—when we tell the story, name the hurt, grant forgiveness, and renew or release the relationship—our suffering begins to transform.
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A very important but difficult piece of renewing relationships is accepting responsibility for our part in any conflict.
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We are made for loving. If we don’t love, we will be like plants without water.
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We are fragile creatures, and it is from this weakness, not despite it, that we discover the possibility of true joy.
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Dear Child of God, I write these words because we all experience sadness, we all come at times to despair, and we all lose hope that the suffering in our lives and in the world will ever end.
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You show your humanity by how you see yourself not as apart from others but from your connection to others.
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Life is more than breath and a heartbeat; meaning and purpose are the life of life.
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Do your little bit of good where you are; it’s those little bits of good put together that overwhelm the world.
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In the end what matters is not how good we are but how good God is. Not how much we love Him but how much He loves us. And God loves us whoever we are, whatever we’ve done or failed to do, whatever we believe or can’t.
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Within every hopeless situation and every seemingly hopeless person lies the possibility of transformation
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If you are neutral in situations of injustice, you have chosen the side of the oppressor. If an elephant has its foot on the tail of a mouse, and you say that you are neutral, the mouse will not appreciate your neutrality.
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It is through weakness and vulnerability that most of us learn empathy and compassion and discover our soul.
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