If you are setting out to be joyful you are not going to end up being joyful. You’re going to find yourself turned in on yourself. It’s like a flower. You open, you blossom, really because of other people.
TUTU DESMONDMuch depends on your attitude. If you are filled with negative judgment and anger, then you will feel separate from other people. You will feel lonely.
More Tutu Desmond Quotes
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When we see others as separate, they become a threat. When we see others as part of us, as connected, as interdependent, then there is no challenge we cannot face—together.
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I wish I could shut up, but I can’t, and I won’t.
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If you are neutral in situations of injustice, you have chosen the side of the oppressor. If an elephant has its foot on the tail of a mouse, and you say that you are neutral, the mouse will not appreciate your neutrality.
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Discovering more joy does not, save us from the inevitability of hardship and heartbreak.
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We need other human beings in order to be human. I am because other people are. A person is entitled to a stable community life, and the first of these communities is the family.
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We are not responsible for what breaks us, but we can be responsible for what puts us back together again. Naming the hurt is how we begin to repair our broken parts.
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We may be surprised at the people we find in heaven. God has a soft spot for sinners. His standards are quite low.
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Don’t raise your voice, improve your argument.
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Life of wholeness does not depend on what we experience. Wholeness depends on how we experience our lives
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A person is a person through other persons; you can’t be human in isolation; you are human only in relationships.
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Dear Child of God, I write these words because we all experience sadness, we all come at times to despair, and we all lose hope that the suffering in our lives and in the world will ever end.
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We learn from history that we don’t learn from history.
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When we see others as the enemy, we risk becoming what we hate. When we oppress others, we end up oppressing ourselves. All of our humanity is dependent upon recognizing the humanity in others.
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The path of joy was connection and the path of sorrow was separation.
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Be nice to whites, they need you to rediscover their humanity.
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