If you are setting out to be joyful you are not going to end up being joyful. You’re going to find yourself turned in on yourself. It’s like a flower. You open, you blossom, really because of other people.
TUTU DESMONDMuch depends on your attitude. If you are filled with negative judgment and anger, then you will feel separate from other people. You will feel lonely.
More Tutu Desmond Quotes
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Don’t raise your voice, improve your argument.
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A person is a person through other persons.
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Language is very powerful. Language does not just describe reality. Language creates the reality it describes.
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We are not responsible for what breaks us, but we can be responsible for what puts us back together again. Naming the hurt is how we begin to repair our broken parts.
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Within every hopeless situation and every seemingly hopeless person lies the possibility of transformation
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Forgiveness is truly the grace by which we enable another person to get up, and get up with dignity, to begin anew.
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If you are neutral in situations of injustice, you have chosen the side of the oppressor. If an elephant has its foot on the tail of a mouse, and you say that you are neutral, the mouse will not appreciate your neutrality.
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A very important but difficult piece of renewing relationships is accepting responsibility for our part in any conflict.
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Like when you sit in front of a fire in winter — you are just there in front of the fire. You don’t have to be smart or anything. The fire warms you.
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You show your humanity by how you see yourself not as apart from others but from your connection to others.
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Do your little bit of good where you are; it’s those little bits of good put together that overwhelm the world.
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I do believe there are monstrous and evil acts, but I do not believe those who commit such acts are monsters or evil.
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When we see others as separate, they become a threat. When we see others as part of us, as connected, as interdependent, then there is no challenge we cannot face—together.
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In the end generosity is the best way of becoming more, more, and more joyful.
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When we see others as the enemy, we risk becoming what we hate. When we oppress others, we end up oppressing ourselves. All of our humanity is dependent upon recognizing the humanity in others.
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