We are made for loving. If we don’t love, we will be like plants without water.
TUTU DESMONDA very important but difficult piece of renewing relationships is accepting responsibility for our part in any conflict.
More Tutu Desmond Quotes
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Differences are not intended to separate, to alienate. We are different precisely in order to realize our need of one another.
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You show your humanity by how you see yourself not as apart from others but from your connection to others.
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I wish I could shut up, but I can’t, and I won’t.
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We are not responsible for what breaks us, but we can be responsible for what puts us back together again. Naming the hurt is how we begin to repair our broken parts.
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Like when you sit in front of a fire in winter — you are just there in front of the fire. You don’t have to be smart or anything. The fire warms you.
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When we see others as separate, they become a threat. When we see others as part of us, as connected, as interdependent, then there is no challenge we cannot face—together.
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We need other human beings in order to be human. I am because other people are. A person is entitled to a stable community life, and the first of these communities is the family.
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In the end generosity is the best way of becoming more, more, and more joyful.
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Our maturity will be judged by how well we are able to agree to disagree and yet continue to love one another, to care for one another, and cherish one another and seek the greater good of the other.
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Don’t raise your voice, improve your argument.
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Dear Child of God, I write these words because we all experience sadness, we all come at times to despair, and we all lose hope that the suffering in our lives and in the world will ever end.
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God is transforming the world now–through us–because God loves us.
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The path of joy was connection and the path of sorrow was separation.
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Much depends on your attitude. If you are filled with negative judgment and anger, then you will feel separate from other people. You will feel lonely.
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I do believe there are monstrous and evil acts, but I do not believe those who commit such acts are monsters or evil.
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