We’re so used to presenting ourselves and getting approval according to our achievements that it’s difficult to be authentic and trust that we’ll be accepted just as we are.
TARA BRACHThe trance of unworthiness keeps the sweetness of belonging out of reach. The path to “the sweetness of belonging,” is acceptance – acceptance of ourselves and acceptance of others without judgment.
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By regarding ourselves with kindness, we begin to dissolve the identity of an isolated, deficient self. This creates the grounds for including others in an unconditionally loving heart.
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Meditation helps us to get out of our thoughts about the future and really be in the present moment.
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When we’re awake in our bodies and sense, the world comes alive. Wisdom, creativity, and love are discovered as we relax and awaken through our bodies.
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The muscles used to make a smile actually send a biochemical message to our nervous system that it is safe to relax the flight of freeze response.
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When we open to love, we become love.
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Longing, felt fully, carries us to belonging.
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Telling each other the truth and being who we are, and having space for the other person’s vulnerability in being who they are, allows us to move in a kind of dance together that’s very fluid and graceful.
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Sometimes the easiest way to appreciate ourselves is by looking through the eyes of someone who loves us.
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Pain is not wrong. Reacting to pain as wrong initiates the trance of unworthiness. The moment we believe something is wrong, our world shrinks and we lose ourselves in the effort to combat the pain.
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Nothing is wrong – whatever is happening is just “real life.”
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Our attitude in the face of life’s challenges determines our suffering or our freedom.
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The boundary to what we can accept is the boundary to our freedom.
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In a basic way, acceptance is seeing clearly what’s happening and holding it with kindness. This is a radical antidote to the suffering of judging mind.
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Awakening self-compassion is often the greatest challenge people face on the spiritual path.
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Suffering is our call to attention, our call to investigate the truth of our beliefs.
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