We may hate a person because he reminds us of someone we feared and disliked when younger; or because we see in him some gross caricature of what we find repugnant in ourself; or because he symbolizes an attitude that seems to threaten us.
SYDNEY J. HARRISAnd nobody is more aware of this difference (although unconsciously) than a child. Only an authentic person can evoke a good response in the core of the other person; only person is resonant to person.
More Sydney J. Harris Quotes
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Intolerance is the most socially acceptable form of egotism, for it permits us to assume superiority without personal boasting.
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A cynic is not merely one who reads bitter lessons from the past, his is also one who is permanently disappointed in the future.
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A university is not, primarily, a place in which to learn how to make a living; it is a place in which to learn how to be more fully a human being, how to draw upon one’s resources, how to discipline the mind and expand the imagination; how to make some sense out of the big world we will shortly be thrown into.
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Man’s unique agony as a species consists in his perpetual conflict between the desire to stand out and the need to blend in.
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We can often endure an extra pound of pain far more easily than we can suffer the withdrawal of an ounce of accustomed pleasure.
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Every rule in the book can be broken, except one – be who you are, and become all you were meant to be.
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Take away grievances from some people and you remove their reasons for living; most of us are nourished by hope, but a considerable minority get psychic nutrition from their resentments, and would waste away purposelessly without them.
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When we have “second thoughts” about something, our first thoughts don’t seem like thoughts at all – just feelings.
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All significant achievement comes from daring from experiment from the willingness to risk failure.
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Nobody can be so amusingly arrogant as a young man who has just discovered an old idea and thinks it is his own.
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We truly possess only what we are able to renounce; otherwise, we are simply possessed by our possessions.
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The main discomfort in being a middle-of-the-roader is that you get sideswiped by partisans going in both directions.
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When I hear somebody sigh, ‘Life is hard,’ I am always tempted to ask, ‘Compared to what?’
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There’s no point in burying a hatchet if you’re going to put up a marker on the site.
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Life is, if anything, the art of combination. Of discrimination. Of freely picking one’s own personal pattern out of a hundred choices. Not letting it be picked for you-either by the Establishment, or by the Rebels. Conformity of Hip is no better than Conformity of Square.
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