If a small thing has the power to make you angry, does that not indicate something about your size?
SYDNEY J. HARRISUsually, if we hate, it is the shadow of the person that we hate, rather than the substance.
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It’s surprising how many persons go through life without ever recognizing that their feelings toward other people are largely determined by their feelings toward themselves, and if you’re not comfortable within yourself, you can’t be comfortable with others.
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Man’s unique agony as a species consists in his perpetual conflict between the desire to stand out and the need to blend in.
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Usually, if we hate, it is the shadow of the person that we hate, rather than the substance.
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Atheism, on the other hand, is as unyielding and dogmatic about religious belief as true believers are about heathens. It tries to use reason to demolish a structure that is not built upon reason.
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Every rule in the book can be broken, except one – be who you are, and become all you were meant to be.
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And to assert defensively at the outset that he is happily married, the father of four children and the one-time adornment of his college boxing, track and tennis teams.
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Regret for the things we did can be tempered by time; it is regret for the things we did not do that is inconsolable.
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Our dilemma is that we hate change and love it at the same time; what we really want is for things to remain the same but get better.
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We have not passed that subtle line between childhood and adulthood until we have stopped saying ‘It got lost,’ and say, ‘I lost it.’
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If you cannot endure to be thought in the wrong, you will begin to do terrible things to make the wrong appear right.
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Those who imagine that the world is against them have generally conspired to make it true.
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People decline invitations when they are “indisposed” physically, and I wish they would do likewise when they feel indisposed emotionally. A person has no more right to attend a party with a head full of venom than with a throat full of virus.
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By the time a man asks you for advice, he has generally made up his mind what he wants to do, and is looking for confirmation rather than counseling.
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We may hate a person because he reminds us of someone we feared and disliked when younger; or because we see in him some gross caricature of what we find repugnant in ourself; or because he symbolizes an attitude that seems to threaten us.
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Being yourself is not remaining what you were, or being satisfied with what you are. It is the point of departure and far from the goal.
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