Usually, if we hate, it is the shadow of the person that we hate, rather than the substance.
SYDNEY J. HARRISA winner rebukes and forgives; a loser is too timid to rebuke and too petty to forgive.
More Sydney J. Harris Quotes
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Every rule in the book can be broken, except one – be who you are, and become all you were meant to be.
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Marriages we regard as the happiest are those in which each of the partners believes he or she got the best of it.
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The pessimist sees only the tunnel; the optimist sees the light at the end of the tunnel; the realist sees the tunnel and the light – and the next tunnel.
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The loner may be respected, but he is always resented by his colleagues, for he seems to be passing a critical judgment on them, when he may be simply making a limiting statement about himself.
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The most important thing in an argument, next to being right, is to leave an escape hatch for your opponent, so that he can gracefully swing over to your side without too much apparent loss of face.
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The best combination of parents consists of a father who is gentle beneath his firmness, and a mother who is firm beneath her gentleness.
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Between the semi-educated, who offer simplistic answers to complex questions, and the overeducated, who offer complicated answers to simple questions, it is a wonder that any questions get satisfactorily answered at all.
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The whole purpose of education is to turn mirrors into windows.
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The greatest educational dogma is also its greatest fallacy: the belief that what must be learned can necessarily be taught.
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Good teaching must be slow enough so that it is not confusing, and fast enough so that it is not boring.
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The main discomfort in being a middle-of-the-roader is that you get sideswiped by partisans going in both directions.
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Most of us go almost all the way through life as complete strangers to ourselves – so how can we know anyone else?
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Nobody can be so amusingly arrogant as a young man who has just discovered an old idea and thinks it is his own.
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Regret for the things we did can be tempered by time; it is regret for the things we did not do that is inconsolable.
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A cynic is not merely one who reads bitter lessons from the past, his is also one who is permanently disappointed in the future.
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