What is much harder to handle is the sense that you have to live up to the mark someone else has set for you. The grades become too important, the competition too frantic, the fear of disappointing those who believe in you turns into an overwhelming nightmare.
SYDNEY J. HARRISThere is no such thing as an “atrocity” in warfare that is greater than the atrocity of warfare itself.
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Elitism is the slur directed at merit by mediocrity.
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Regret for the things we did can be tempered by time; it is regret for the things we did not do that is inconsolable.
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Men make counterfeit money; in many more cases, money makes counterfeit men.
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Making out an invitation list for a party brings out the worst in everyone. It is then that our most ruthless estimates of the people we know come into play.
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We can often endure an extra pound of pain far more easily than we can suffer the withdrawal of an ounce of accustomed pleasure.
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When we have “second thoughts” about something, our first thoughts don’t seem like thoughts at all – just feelings.
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Time is love, above all else. It is the most precious commodity in the world and should be lavished on those we care most about.
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By the time a man asks you for advice, he has generally made up his mind what he wants to do, and is looking for confirmation rather than counseling.
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A man will lay down his life for his friend but will not sacrifice his eardrums.
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If you’re not part of the solution, you’re part of the problem, but the perpetual human predicament is that the answer soon poses its own problems.
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The pessimist sees only the tunnel; the optimist sees the light at the end of the tunnel; the realist sees the tunnel and the light – and the next tunnel.
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When I hear somebody sigh, ‘Life is hard,’ I am always tempted to ask, ‘Compared to what?’
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If you cannot endure to be thought in the wrong, you will begin to do terrible things to make the wrong appear right.
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No one should pay attention to a man delivering a lecture or a sermon on his “philosophy of life” until we know exactly how he treats his wife, his children, his neighbors, his friends, his subordinates and his enemies.
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Honesty consists of the unwillingness to lie to others; maturity, which is equally hard to attain, consists of the unwillingness to lie to oneself.
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