When we inform, we lead from strength; when we communicate, we lead from weakness-and it is precisely this confession of mortality that engages the ears, heads and hearts of those we want to enlist as allies in a common cause.
SYDNEY J. HARRISA man will lay down his life for his friend but will not sacrifice his eardrums.
More Sydney J. Harris Quotes
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Between the semi-educated, who offer simplistic answers to complex questions, and the overeducated, who offer complicated answers to simple questions, it is a wonder that any questions get satisfactorily answered at all.
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The public examination of homosexuality in our contemporary life is still so coated with distasteful moral connotations that even a reviewer is bound to wonder uneasily why he was selected to evaluate a book on the subject.
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Nobody really knows how smart or talented he is until he finds the incentives to use himself to the fullest. God has given us more than we know what to do with.
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And nobody is more aware of this difference (although unconsciously) than a child. Only an authentic person can evoke a good response in the core of the other person; only person is resonant to person.
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The real danger is not that computers will begin to think like men, but that men will begin to think like computers.
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Marriages we regard as the happiest are those in which each of the partners believes he or she got the best of it.
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The primary purpose of a liberal education is to make one’s mind a pleasant place in which to spend one’s leisure.
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We truly possess only what we are able to renounce; otherwise, we are simply possessed by our possessions.
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The main discomfort in being a middle-of-the-roader is that you get sideswiped by partisans going in both directions.
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Patriotism is proud of a country’s virtues and eager to correct its deficiencies; it also acknowledges the legitimate patriotism of other countries, with their own specific virtues.
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When I hear somebody sigh, ‘Life is hard,’ I am always tempted to ask, ‘Compared to what?’
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Making out an invitation list for a party brings out the worst in everyone. It is then that our most ruthless estimates of the people we know come into play.
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Many married couples separate because they quarrel incessantly, but just as many separate because they were never honest enough or courageous enough to quarrel when they should have.
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Many people feel “guilty” about things they shouldn’t feel guilty about, in order to shut out feelings of guilt about things they should feel guilty about.
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A cynic is not merely one who reads bitter lessons from the past, his is also one who is permanently disappointed in the future.
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