People only change when it becomes too dangerous to stay the way they are.
ROLLO MAYMany people suffer from the fear of finding oneself alone, and so they don’t find themselves at all.
More Rollo May Quotes
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Therapy isn’t curing somebody of something; it is a means of helping a person explore himself, his life, his consciousness. My purpose as a therapist is to find out what it means to be human.
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People attain worth and dignity by the multitude of decisions they make from day by day. These decisions require courage.
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Freedom is man’s capacity to take a hand in his own development. It is our capacity to mold ourselves.
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A dynamic struggle goes on within a person between what he or she consciously thinks on the one hand and, on the other, some insight, some perspective that is struggling to be born.
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Every human being must have a point at which he stands against the culture, where he says, this is me and the damned world can go to hell.
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The first thing necessary for a constructive dealing with time is to learn to live in the reality of the present moment. For psychologically speaking, this present moment is all we have.
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Vanity and narcissism – the compulsive need to be admired and praised – undermine one’s courage, for one then fights on someone else’s conviction rather than one’s own.
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Artists love to immerse themselves in chaos in order to put it into form, just as God created form out of chaos in Genesis. Forever unsatisfied with the mundane, the apathetic, the conventional, they always push on to newer worlds.
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This personal freedom to think and feel and speak authentically and to be conscious of so doing is the quality that distinguishes us as human.
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When we are dealing with human beings, no truth has reality by itself; it is always dependent upon the reality of the immediate relationship.
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One of the few blessings of living in an age of anxiety is that we are forced to become aware of ourselves.
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The essence of being human is that, in the brief moment we exist on this spinning planet, we can love some persons and some things, in spite of the fact that time and death will ultimately claim us all.
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All people are struggling to be creative in some way, and the artist is the one who has succeeded in this task of life.
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Recall how often in human history the saint and the rebel have be the same person. (p. 35)
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It is an ironic habit of human beings to run faster when we have lost our way.
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