Many people suffer from the fear of finding oneself alone, and so they don’t find themselves at all.
ROLLO MAYWhen you are completely absorbed or caught up in something, you become oblivious to things around you, or to the passage of time. It is this absorption in what you are doing that frees your unconscious and releases your creative imagination.
More Rollo May Quotes
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Real freedom is the ability to pause between stimulus and response, and in that pause, choose.
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Science, Nietzsche had warned, is becoming a factory, and the result will be ethical nihilism.
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The word courage comes from the same stem as the French word Coeur, meaning “heart.” Thus just as one’s heart, by pumping blood to one’s arms, legs, and brain enables all the other physical organs to function.
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Courage is required not only in a person’s occasional crucial decision for his own freedom, but in the little hour-to-hour decisions which place the bricks in the structure of his building of himself into a person who acts with freedom and responsibility.
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Vanity and narcissism – the compulsive need to be admired and praised – undermine one’s courage, for one then fights on someone else’s conviction rather than one’s own.
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This is what makes heroism so important: it reflects our own sense of identity and from this our own heroism is molded.
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The creative act arises out of the struggle of human beings with and against that which limits them.
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The amazing thing about love is that it is the best way to get to know ourselves.
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Deeds of violence in our society are performed largely by those trying to establish their self-esteem, to defend their self-image, and to demonstrate that they, too, are significant.
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Recall how often in human history the saint and the rebel have be the same person. (p. 35)
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In my clinical experience, the greatest block to a person’s development is his having to take on a way of life which is not rooted in his own powers.
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Freedom is man’s capacity to take a hand in his own development. It is our capacity to mold ourselves.
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Intimacy requires courage because risk is inescapable.
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Every human being must have a point at which he stands against the culture, where he says, “This is me and the world be damned!” Leaders have always been the ones to stand against the society – Socrates, Christ, Freud, all the way down the line.
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Fortunately, however, we no longer have to argue that self -love is not only necessary and good but that it also is a prerequisite for loving others.
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