Intimacy requires courage because risk is inescapable. We cannot know at the outset how the relationship will affect us. Like a chemical mixture, if one of us is changed, both of us will be. Will we grow in self-actualization, or will it destroy us?
ROLLO MAYOne does not become fully human painlessly.
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What anxiety means is it’s as though the world is knocking at your door, and you need to create, you need to make something, you need to do something. I think anxiety, for people who have found their own heart and their own souls, for them it is a stimulus toward creativity, toward courage. It’s what makes us human beings.
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All people are struggling to be creative in some way, and the artist is the one who has succeeded in this task of life.
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One does not become fully human painlessly.
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Ecstasy is the accurate term for the intensity of consciousness that occurs in the creative act.
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Life comes from physical survival; but the good life comes from what we care about.
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Recall how often in human history the saint and the rebel have be the same person. (p. 35)
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Joy, rather than happiness, is the goal of life, for joy is the emotion which accompanies our fulfilling our natures as human beings. It is based on the experience of one’s identity as a being of worth and dignity.
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The word courage comes from the same stem as the French word Coeur, meaning “heart.” Thus just as one’s heart, by pumping blood to one’s arms, legs, and brain enables all the other physical organs to function.
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We define religion as the assumption that life has meaning. Religion, or lack of it, is shown not in some intellectual or verbal formulations but in one’s total orientation to life.
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It is an ironic habit of human beings to run faster when we have lost our way.
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The purpose of psychotherapy is to set people free.
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I learned that healing and cure are active processes in which I myself needed to participate.
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Creativity is neither the product of neurosis nor simple talent, but an intense courageous encounter with the Gods.
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People attain worth and dignity by the multitude of decisions they make from day by day. These decisions require courage.
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Courage is not the absence of despair; it is, rather, the capacity to move ahead in spite of despair.
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