One central need in life is to fulfill its own potential.
ROLLO MAYVanity and narcissism – the compulsive need to be admired and praised – undermine one’s courage, for one then fights on someone else’s conviction rather than one’s own.
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A person can meet anxiety to the extent that his values are stronger than the threat.
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Recall how often in human history the saint and the rebel have be the same person. (p. 35)
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Courage is not a virtue of value among other personal values like love or fidelity. It is the foundation that underlies and gives reality to all other virtues and personal values. Without courage our love pales into mere dependency. Without courage our fidelity becomes conformism.
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Intimacy requires courage because risk is inescapable. We cannot know at the outset how the relationship will affect us. Like a chemical mixture, if one of us is changed, both of us will be. Will we grow in self-actualization, or will it destroy us?
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What if imagination and art are not frosting at all, but the fountainhead of human experience?
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This is what makes heroism so important: it reflects our own sense of identity and from this our own heroism is molded.
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Does not the possibility or the power to do something about the situation at hand confer on one the responsibility to do it?
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It is an ironic habit of human beings to run faster when we have lost our way.
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Freedom is man’s capacity to take a hand in his own development. It is our capacity to mold ourselves.
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One does not become fully human painlessly.
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People only change when it becomes too dangerous to stay the way they are.
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Hate is not the opposite of love; apathy is.
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Creativity is the encounter of the intensively conscious human being with his world.
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It is amazing how many hints and guides and intuitions for living come to the sensitive person who has ears to hear what his body is saying.
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This is what our society needs – not new ideas and inventions; important as these are, and not geniuses and supermen, but persons who can be, that is, persons who have a center of strength within themselves.
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