Feelings like disappointment, embarrassment, irritation, resentment, anger, jealousy, and fear, instead of being bad news, are actually very clear moments that teach us where it is that we’re holding back.
PEMA CHODRONBe kinder to yourself. And then let your kindness flood the world.
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We work on ourselves in order to help others, but also we help others in order to work on ourselves.
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In the end, that’s what we all need more than anything else: to be there for each other, in every kind of situation.
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If we learn to open our hearts, anyone, including the people who drive us crazy, can be our teacher.
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Meditation isn’t really about getting rid of thoughts, it’s about changing the pattern of grasping on to things, which in our everyday experience is our thoughts.
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Nothing ever goes away until it has taught us what we need to know. Even if we run a hundred miles an hour to the other side of the continent, we find the very same problem awaiting us when we arrive.
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Feeling irritated, restless, afraid, and hopeless is a reminder to listen more carefully.
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All the wars, all the hatred, all the ignorance in the world come out of being so invested in our opinions.
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Each person’s life is like a mandala – a vast, limitless circle. We stand in the center of our own circle, and everything we see, hear and think forms the mandala of our life … everything that shows up in your mandala is a vehicle for your awakening.
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When things fall apart in your life, you feel as if your whole world is crumbling. But actually it’s your fixed identity that’s crumbling. And as Chögyam Trungpa used to tell us, that’s cause for celebration.
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Our true nature is like a precious jewel: although it may be temporarily buried in mud, it remains completely brilliant and unaffected. We simply have to uncover it.
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You are the sky. Everything else – it’s just the weather.
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The second noble truth says that this resistance is the mechanism of what we call ego, that resisting life causes suffering.
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Inner peace begins the moment you choose not to allow another person or event to control your emotions.
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One of the deepest habitual patterns that we have is to feel that now is not enough.
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Anything we experience, no matter how challenging, can become an open pathway to awakening.
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