The essence of generosity is letting go. Pain is always a sign that we are holding on to something – usually ourselves.
PEMA CHODRONBe kinder to yourself. And then let your kindness flood the world.
More Pema Chodron Quotes
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The truth you believe and cling to makes you unavailable to hear anything new.
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It isn’t the things that are happening to us that cause us to suffer, it’s what we say to ourselves about the things that are happening. The truth you believe and cling to makes you unavailable to hear anything new.
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One of the deepest habitual patterns that we have is to feel that now is not enough.
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Obstacles are our friends: they teach us where we’re stuck.
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In meditation, you learn how to get out of your own way long enough for there to be room for your wisdom to manifest.
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When things fall apart in your life, you feel as if your whole world is crumbling. But actually it’s your fixed identity that’s crumbling. And as Chögyam Trungpa used to tell us, that’s cause for celebration.
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Use what seems like poison as medicine. Use your personal suffering as the path to compassion for all beings.
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You are the sky. Everything else – it’s just the weather.
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As our kindness for ourselves grows, so does our kindness for other people.
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Don’t worry about achieving. Don’t worry about perfection. Just be there each moment as best you can.
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Since death is certain and the time of death is uncertain, what is the most important thing?
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We can let the circumstances of our lives harden us so that we become increasingly resentful and afraid, or we can let them soften us and make us kinder and more open to what scares us. We always have this choice.
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Never give up on yourself. Then you will never give up on others.
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In the end, that’s what we all need more than anything else: to be there for each other, in every kind of situation.
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When we resist change, it’s called suffering. But when we can completely let go and not struggle against it, when we can embrace the groundlessness of our situation and relax into it’s dynamic quality, that’s called enlightenment.
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