We can let the circumstances of our lives harden us so that we become increasingly resentful and afraid, or we can let them soften us and make us kinder and more open to what scares us. We always have this choice.
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More Pema Chodron Quotes
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Resisting what is happening is a major cause of suffering.
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You are the sky. Everything else – it’s just the weather.
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By the way that we think and by the way that we believe in things, in that way our world is created.
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Anything we experience, no matter how challenging, can become an open pathway to awakening.
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In meditation, you learn how to get out of your own way long enough for there to be room for your wisdom to manifest.
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Usually we think that brave people have no fear. The truth is that they are intimate with fear.
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Each person’s life is like a mandala – a vast, limitless circle. We stand in the center of our own circle, and everything we see, hear and think forms the mandala of our life … everything that shows up in your mandala is a vehicle for your awakening.
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Whatever happens in your life, joyful or painful, do not be swept away by reactivity. Be patient with yourself and don’t lose your sense of perspective.
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When we resist change, it’s called suffering. But when we can completely let go and not struggle against it, when we can embrace the groundlessness of our situation and relax into it’s dynamic quality, that’s called enlightenment.
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The future is completely open and we are writing it moment to moment.
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Deep down in the human spirit, there is a reservoir of courage. It is always available, always waiting to be discovered.
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The truth you believe and cling to makes you unavailable to hear anything new.
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So many of us start along the spiritual path because we are suffering. But you must realize that for real healing to occur, there must first be deep compassion for yourself, especially the parts of yourself you dislike or consider ugly.
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If we learn to open our hearts, anyone, including the people who drive us crazy, can be our teacher.
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We have a choice. We can spend our whole life suffering because we can’t relax with how things really are, or we can relax and embrace the open-endedness of the human situation, which is fresh, unfixated, unbiased.
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