Meditation isn’t really about getting rid of thoughts, it’s about changing the pattern of grasping on to things, which in our everyday experience is our thoughts.
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The central question of a warrior’s training is not how we avoid uncertainty and fear but how we relate to discomfort.
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Don’t worry about achieving. Don’t worry about perfection. Just be there each moment as best you can.
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Appreciate everything, even the ordinary. Especially the ordinary.
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Since death is certain and the time of death is uncertain, what is the most important thing?
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Be kinder to yourself. And then let your kindness flood the world.
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We have a choice. We can spend our whole life suffering because we can’t relax with how things really are, or we can relax and embrace the open-endedness of the human situation, which is fresh, unfixated, unbiased.
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So many of us start along the spiritual path because we are suffering. But you must realize that for real healing to occur, there must first be deep compassion for yourself, especially the parts of yourself you dislike or consider ugly.
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Sticking with that uncertainty, getting the knack of relaxing in the midst of chaos, learning not to panic-this is the spiritual path.
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The best spiritual instruction is when you wake up in the morning and say, ‘I wonder what’s going to happen today.’ And then carry that kind of curiosity through your life.
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The essence of generosity is letting go. Pain is always a sign that we are holding on to something – usually ourselves.
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When we resist change, it’s called suffering. But when we can completely let go and not struggle against it, when we can embrace the groundlessness of our situation and relax into it’s dynamic quality, that’s called enlightenment.
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You build inner strength through embracing the totality of your experience, both the delightful parts and the difficult parts.
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Nothing ever goes away until it has taught us what we need to know. Even if we run a hundred miles an hour to the other side of the continent, we find the very same problem awaiting us when we arrive.
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Nothing ever goes away until it has taught us what we need to know.
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We work on ourselves in order to help others, but also we help others in order to work on ourselves.
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