When things fall apart in your life, you feel as if your whole world is crumbling. But actually it’s your fixed identity that’s crumbling. And as Chögyam Trungpa used to tell us, that’s cause for celebration.
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By the way that we think and by the way that we believe in things, in that way our world is created.
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The second noble truth says that this resistance is the mechanism of what we call ego, that resisting life causes suffering.
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To be fully alive, fully human, and completely awake is to be continually thrown out of the nest. To live fully is to be always in no-man’s-land, to experience each moment as completely new and fresh. To live is to be willing to die over and over again.
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The central question of a warrior’s training is not how we avoid uncertainty and fear but how we relate to discomfort.
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Feeling irritated, restless, afraid, and hopeless is a reminder to listen more carefully.
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We have a choice. We can spend our whole life suffering because we can’t relax with how things really are, or we can relax and embrace the open-endedness of the human situation, which is fresh, unfixated, unbiased.
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We work on ourselves in order to help others, but also we help others in order to work on ourselves.
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Since death is certain and the time of death is uncertain, what is the most important thing?
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As our kindness for ourselves grows, so does our kindness for other people.
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Obstacles are our friends: they teach us where we’re stuck.
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Nothing ever goes away until it has taught us what we need to know. Even if we run a hundred miles an hour to the other side of the continent, we find the very same problem awaiting us when we arrive.
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In meditation, you learn how to get out of your own way long enough for there to be room for your wisdom to manifest.
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Deep down in the human spirit, there is a reservoir of courage. It is always available, always waiting to be discovered.
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If someone comes along and shoots an arrow into your heart, it’s fruitless to stand there and yell at the person. It would be much better to turn your attention to the fact that there’s an arrow in your heart.
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Never give up on yourself. Then you will never give up on others.
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