People are either attracted to the unseemly or disapproving of it, or both; yet we try to sound superior to the unseemly by pretending to be amused by it or indifferent to it.
JOHN IRVINGIt doesn’t really matter who said it – it’s so obviously true. Before you can write anything, you have to notice something.
More John Irving Quotes
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And when you love a book, commit one glorious sentence of it-perhaps your favorite sentence-to memory. That way you won’t forget the language of the story that moved you to tears.
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How we love to love things for other people; how we love to have other people love things through our eyes.
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When Jack Burns needed to hold his mother’s hand, his fingers could see in the dark.
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They were involved in that awkward procedure of getting to unknow each other.
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Death, it seems,” Garp wrote, “does not like to wait until we are prepared for it. Death is indulgent and enjoys, when it can, a flair for the dramatic.
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In the world according to her father, Jenny Garp knew, we must have energy. Her famous grandmother, Jenny Fields, once thought of us as Externals, Vital Organs, Absentees, and Goners. But in the world according to Garp, we are all terminal cases.
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You can’t say you’re going to ban something in the name of good taste, because then you have directed someone to play the role of good-taste police. We – Americans – permit bad taste in this country. In fact, we even encourage it.
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…every study of the gods, of everyone’s gods, is a revelation of vengeance towards the innocent.
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I still believe in getting married in churches and baptizing children. I go through those motions.
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… and so he tried to accept the ache in his heart as what Dr. Larch would call the common symptoms of normal life.
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Everybody dies … The thing is, to have a life before we die.
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There is no straightforward negotiation with a four year old.
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It is your responsibility to find fault with me, it is mine to hear you out. But don’t expect me to change.
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What has been violated here is your freedom of choice, and every woman’s freedom of choice, too.
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The former stewardess glared at her ex-pilot husband as if he had been speaking, and thinking, in the absence of sufficient oxygen.
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The excitement of anticipation was *almost* equal to the thrill of lovemaking.
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A part of adolescence is feelimg that there’s no one else around who’s enough like youself to understand you.
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He wished he could arrange a maiming as a kind of moral lesson
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You only grow by coming to the end of something and by beginning something else.
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If you presume to love something, you must love the process of it much more than you love the finished product.
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I’m not afraid, but I’m very nervous.
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We permit bad taste in this country. In fact, we even encourage it – and reward it in all manner of ways.
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No one could have fathomed what a life he’d led, for it was chiefly a life lived in his mind.
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There are always suicides among people who are unable to say what they mean.
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Writing a novel is actually searching for victims. As I write I keep looking for casualties. The stories uncover the casualties.
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When you legislate personal belief, you’re in violation of freedom of religion.
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