I will tell you what is my overriding perception of the last twenty years: that we are a civilization careening toward a succession of anticlimaxes – toward an infinity of unsatisfying, and disagreeable endings.
JOHN IRVINGWe permit bad taste in this country. In fact, we even encourage it – and reward it in all manner of ways.
More John Irving Quotes
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You only grow by coming to the end of something and by beginning something else.
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All I say is: Let us leave les folles alone; let’s just leave them be. Don’t judge them. You are not superior to them – don’t put them down.
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If you presume to love something, you must love the process of it much more than you love the finished product.
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I have a friend who says that reviewers are the tickbirds of the literary rhinoceros-but he is being kind. Tickbirds perform a valuable service to the rhino and the rhino hardly notices the birds.
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When Jack Burns needed to hold his mother’s hand, his fingers could see in the dark.
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The ability to see the future can be a burden, and the younger you are and the more isolated you feel, maybe the more of a burden it is.
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Be serious. Life hurts. Reflect what hurts. I don’t mean that you can’t also be funny, or have fun, but at the end of the day, stories are about what you lose.
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What is hardest to accept about the passage of time is that the people who once mattered the most to us wind up in parentheses.
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but good friends are nothing to each other if they are not supportive.
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I certainly think Obama is the most hopeful president I’ve seen in the country since John Kennedy.
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The lie, of course, is more interesting.
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We permit bad taste in this country. In fact, we even encourage it – and reward it in all manner of ways.
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A part of adolescence is feelimg that there’s no one else around who’s enough like youself to understand you.
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My life is a reading list.
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I think now that is the nature of hymns-they make us want to repeat them…they are a part of any service, and often the only part of a funeral service, that makes us feel everything is acceptable.
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THERE’S NO MONKEY BUSINESS ABOUT THIS ELECTION,’ he told the voters. ‘IF YOU’RE ENOUGH OF AN ASSHOLE TO VOTE FOR NIXON, YOUR DUMB VOTE WILL BE COUNTED––JUST LIKE ANYBODY ELSE!
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The way you define yourself as a writer is that you write every time you have a free minute. If you didn’t behave that way you would never do anything.
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Rituals are comforting; rituals combat loneliness.
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The gardener had a dread of small women; he’d always imagined them to have an anger disproportionate to their size.
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They all settled into being the kind of friends when they heard from each other…. or when they occasionally got together. And when they were not in touch, they did not think of one another.
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Wrestling was my first success, the first thing that confirmed that I could be good at anything. Devoting yourself to wrestling, or tennis, or skiing, or dance, or to a musical instrument is a longing to be disciplined for a purpose.
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He wished he could arrange a maiming as a kind of moral lesson
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You know, everybody dies. My parents died. Your father died. Everybody dies. I’m going to die too. So will you. The thing is, to have a life before we die. It can be a real adventure having a life
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A novel is a piece of architecture. It’s not random wallowings or confessional diaries. It’s a building-it has to have walls and floors and the bathrooms have to work.
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There’s no reason you shouldn’t, as a writer, not be aware of the necessity to revise yourself constantly.
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People are either attracted to the unseemly or disapproving of it, or both; yet we try to sound superior to the unseemly by pretending to be amused by it or indifferent to it.
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