I’ve always been slow but I’m even slower now. I’m more into the waiting, or I guess I’m more patient about the waiting.
JOHN IRVINGWhen Jack Burns needed to hold his mother’s hand, his fingers could see in the dark.
More John Irving Quotes
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I have a friend who says that reviewers are the tickbirds of the literary rhinoceros-but he is being kind. Tickbirds perform a valuable service to the rhino and the rhino hardly notices the birds.
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Children are most impressed with the importance of a moment when they witness a parent breaking the parents’ own rule.
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When Jack Burns needed to hold his mother’s hand, his fingers could see in the dark.
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They were involved in that awkward procedure of getting to unknow each other.
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I’ve always preferred writing in longhand. I’ve always written first drafts in longhand.
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Wrestling was my first success, the first thing that confirmed that I could be good at anything. Devoting yourself to wrestling, or tennis, or skiing, or dance, or to a musical instrument is a longing to be disciplined for a purpose.
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Plot is a map and I begin with it. It is what made me admire the novels of the 19th century; that the stories are foreshadowed. TheyÕre going someplace.
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No one could have fathomed what a life he’d led, for it was chiefly a life lived in his mind.
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… and so he tried to accept the ache in his heart as what Dr. Larch would call the common symptoms of normal life.
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A part of adolescence is feelimg that there’s no one else around who’s enough like youself to understand you.
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Life is an X-rated soap opera.
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What is hardest to accept about the passage of time is that the people who once mattered the most to us wind up in parentheses.
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They all settled into being the kind of friends when they heard from each other…. or when they occasionally got together. And when they were not in touch, they did not think of one another.
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Life is serious but art is fun!
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O God — please give him back! I shall keep asking You.
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If you feel strongly about people having abortions, don’t have one. But we are a country – USA – that likes to be punitive. We want to restrict. It is a kind of religious fervor run amuck.
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There’s nothing as scary as the future.
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I have no respect for the right-to-life position, though I have every respect for an individual who says, “I could never have that procedure, I could never see a film or read a book about that procedure.” It doesn’t bother me if people feel that way.
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but good friends are nothing to each other if they are not supportive.
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You know, everybody dies. My parents died. Your father died. Everybody dies. I’m going to die too. So will you. The thing is, to have a life before we die. It can be a real adventure having a life
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I write very quickly; I rewrite very slowly. It takes me nearly as long to rewrite a book as it does to get the first draft.
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Rituals are comforting; rituals combat loneliness.
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It’s not right to hurt or deceive someone who’s already been hurt and deceived.
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There are always suicides among people who are unable to say what they mean.
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When you legislate personal belief, you’re in violation of freedom of religion.
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Nearly everything seems a letdown after a writer has finished writing something.
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