There are always suicides among people who are unable to say what they mean.
JOHN IRVINGThey were involved in that awkward procedure of getting to unknow each other.
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The unspoken factor is love. The reason I can work so hard at my writing is that it’s not work for me.
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In the world according to Garp, we are all terminal cases
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But I often think that so-called glamorous people are just very busy people.
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Life,” Garp wrote, “is sadly not structured like a good old-fashioned novel. Instead an end occurs when those who are meant to peter out have petered out. All that is left is memory. But even a nihilist has memory.
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You’re nice,’ Cushie told him, squeezing his hand. ‘And you’re my oldest friend.’ But they both must have known that you can know someone all your life and never quite be friends.
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He was too young to know that, in any novel with a reasonable amount of forethought, there were no coincidences.
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You know, everybody dies. My parents died. Your father died. Everybody dies. I’m going to die too. So will you. The thing is, to have a life before we die. It can be a real adventure having a life
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You’ve got to get obsessed and stay obsessed.
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The way you define yourself as a writer is that you write every time you have a free minute. If you didn’t behave that way you would never do anything.
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Writing a novel is actually searching for victims. As I write I keep looking for casualties. The stories uncover the casualties.
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Kids are beautiful, man. And they know much more than grownups think they know. Kids are just perfect people until grownups get their hands on them.
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He wished he could arrange a maiming as a kind of moral lesson
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THERE’S NO MONKEY BUSINESS ABOUT THIS ELECTION,’ he told the voters. ‘IF YOU’RE ENOUGH OF AN ASSHOLE TO VOTE FOR NIXON, YOUR DUMB VOTE WILL BE COUNTED––JUST LIKE ANYBODY ELSE!
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Self-hatred is worse than loneliness.
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Watch out for people who call themselves religious; make sure you know what they mean – make sure they know what they mean!
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Our memory is a monster; you forget it – it does not.
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Rituals are comforting; rituals combat loneliness.
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You only grow by coming to the end of something and by beginning something else.
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The gardener had a dread of small women; he’d always imagined them to have an anger disproportionate to their size.
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Death, it seems,” Garp wrote, “does not like to wait until we are prepared for it. Death is indulgent and enjoys, when it can, a flair for the dramatic.
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As it was, things went from bad to worse, as they often will when amateurs are involved in an activity that they perform in bad temper – or in a hurry.
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When Jack Burns needed to hold his mother’s hand, his fingers could see in the dark.
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I have always believed that, in a story, if something traumatic or calamitous enough happens to a kid at a formative age, that will make him or her the adult they become.
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If we live long enough, we become caricatures of ourselves.
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The excitement of anticipation was *almost* equal to the thrill of lovemaking.
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I suppose I’m proudest of my novels for what’s imagined in them. I think the world of my imagination is a richer and more interesting place than my personal biography.
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