They all settled into being the kind of friends when they heard from each other…. or when they occasionally got together. And when they were not in touch, they did not think of one another.
JOHN IRVINGThey all settled into being the kind of friends when they heard from each other…. or when they occasionally got together. And when they were not in touch, they did not think of one another.
JOHN IRVINGI always thought that you could do worse than find yourself dying in the company of a devoted former student.
JOHN IRVINGThis is what self-centered religion does to us: it allows us to use it to further our own ends.
JOHN IRVINGIt is hard work and great art to make life not so serious.
JOHN IRVINGNothing bears out in practice what it promises incipiently.
JOHN IRVINGNo adult in my family would ever tell me anything about who my father was. I knew from an older cousin – only four years older than I am – everything, or what little I could discover about him.
JOHN IRVINGIt happens to many teenagers-that moment when you feel full of resentment or distrust for those adults you once loved unquestioningly.
JOHN IRVINGIf you presume to love something, you must love the process of it much more than you love the finished product.
JOHN IRVINGIt’s not right to hurt or deceive someone who’s already been hurt and deceived.
JOHN IRVINGIf you feel strongly about people having abortions, don’t have one. But we are a country – USA – that likes to be punitive. We want to restrict. It is a kind of religious fervor run amuck.
JOHN IRVINGI never know when I finish the novel I am writing which will be the next novel out of the station.
JOHN IRVINGIn increments both measurable and not, our childhood is stolen from us — not always in one momentous event but often in a series of small robberies, which add up to the same loss.
JOHN IRVINGIt is exhausting to be seventeen and not know who you are.
JOHN IRVINGYou know, everybody dies. My parents died. Your father died. Everybody dies. I’m going to die too. So will you. The thing is, to have a life before we die. It can be a real adventure having a life
JOHN IRVINGThe way you define yourself as a writer is that you write every time you have a free minute. If you didn’t behave that way you would never do anything.
JOHN IRVINGIn the world according to Garp, we are all terminal cases
JOHN IRVING