The person who betrayed you is sunning themselves on a beach in Hawaii and you’re knotted up in hatred. Who is suffering?
JACK KORNFIELDBuddhists were actually the first cognitive-behavioral therapists.
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Each moment of every day is new and then it vanishes. Where is that day? Where is that moment?
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Everything that has a beginning has an ending. Make your peace with that and all will be well.
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It does not matter whether you have religion or are an agnostic believe in nothing, You can only appreciate (without knowing or understanding) the mysteries of life.
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To let go does not mean to get rid of. To let go means to let be. When we let be with compassion, things come and go on their own.
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Life without forgiveness is unbearable.
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As we willingly enter each place of fear, each place of deficiency and insecurity in ourselves, we will discover that its walls are made of untruths, of old images of ourselves, of ancient fears, of false ideas of what is pure and what is not.
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What we seek is what we are.
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Much of spiritual life is self-acceptance, maybe all of it.
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Equanimity arises when we accept the way things are.
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The basic principle of spiritual life is that our problems become the very place to discover wisdom and love.
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In the end, just three things matter: How well we have lived How well we have loved How well we have learned to let go.
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In the end, forgiveness simply means never putting another person out of our heart.
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You need a community. They remind you when you forget, and you remind them when they forget.
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A second quality of mature spirituality is kindness. It is based on a fundamental notion of self-acceptance.
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Compassion for ourselves gives rise to the power to transform resentment into forgiveness, hatred into friendliness, and fear into respect for all beings.
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